PUA Forum :: Desensitised to Cold Approach?

My advice is to step away from the sarging and actually meet girls going about your day.

From my experience, my lays have come from when I am carrying a frozen bag of peas, not being over dressed polished turd picking up girls style...

When sarging, there is a massive pressure on your shoulders that I am convinced women can smell from a far. The 'I don't usually do this' lacks authenticity and doesn't quite land.

I started to realise this AFTER I finished sarging and always seem to get solid numbers on the way home.

I am not saying to ditch cold approach, but at the beginner stage, it is best to get as many approaches and reactions under your belt as much as possible, once you handle your AA, then perhaps turn it off and just make it part of you.

I have approached 1000's of girls to sarge and still yet to bang a girl whilst actively day gaming.

I have done about -100 approaches organically (not sarging) and I got way more numbers, dates and lays, usually after a tiring day of pick up. I am convinced the girls can feel what you feel, especially when you have approached her organically and authentically instead of being the 7th girls in the last hour.

I have friends that sarge and still make it work for them though and I just can't seem to emulate that. But maybe my post speaks sense if you're more like me

Author:	JHA91 [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 8:51 am ]
Post subject:	Desensitised to Cold Approach?
One of my sticking points is that I have become desensitized to cold approach with 500 approaches under my belt. This takes away some of the energy from the interaction. I remember before I knew anything about game if I dared pluck up the courage to talk to a girl, the feat would be that much greater and therefore elicit more of a reaction. Now that I am more in control of my nerves, the girl is just like, "Oh, so I am just another one of 20 approaches for Mr. Daygamer today then?" And she can tell this from my body language. Sometimes I say something like, "I don't do this very often, I get nervous around beautiful women." But she can sense this is a lie. So I'm wondering what I can do to bring that energy back into the interaction, without - obviously - having to create nervous energy.

Author:	Dragula [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 9:44 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Desensitised to Cold Approach?
My advice is to step away from the sarging and actually meet girls going about your day. From my experience, my lays have come from when I am carrying a frozen bag of peas, not being over dressed polished turd picking up girls style... When sarging, there is a massive pressure on your shoulders that I am convinced women can smell from a far. The 'I don't usually do this' lacks authenticity and doesn't quite land. I started to realise this AFTER I finished sarging and always seem to get solid numbers on the way home. I am not saying to ditch cold approach, but at the beginner stage, it is best to get as many approaches and reactions under your belt as much as possible, once you handle your AA, then perhaps turn it off and just make it part of you. I have approached 1000's of girls to sarge and still yet to bang a girl whilst actively day gaming. I have done about -100 approaches organically (not sarging) and I got way more numbers, dates and lays, usually after a tiring day of pick up. I am convinced the girls can feel what you feel, especially when you have approached her organically and authentically instead of being the 7th girls in the last hour. I have friends that sarge and still make it work for them though and I just can't seem to emulate that. But maybe my post speaks sense if you're more like me

Author:	JHA91 [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 9:51 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Desensitised to Cold Approach?
Yeah, no that totally makes sense. Thing is I don't tend to meet that many attractive women going about my day usually. Except at the gym maybe. But then it's generally disapproved of to approach someone at the gym what with all the sweat and yoga pants.

Author:	Dragula [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 10:21 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Desensitised to Cold Approach?
I guess that depends on your location. I live right in the heart of my city. My main girl that I see, I met her at the road crossing next to my door step. I see a hot girl everyday. Putting yourself in a city kind of the basics if you ask me. But if the gym is your only option. I guess there is a smooth way to pick up girls there. That's something I have no experience apart from but I am sure there is some threads on the subject. You can meet girls anywhere.

Author:	JHA91 [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 12:06 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Desensitised to Cold Approach?
I live in the city as well but go out of the central for gym, groceries etc. I mainly just game (night game and day game) in the centre and occasionally go to starbucks. Sometimes I talk to cute girls in Starbucks but never met anybody that wanted to talk let alone give me their number that way. I haven't really tried pulling girls in the gym yet but guess it's about time I manned up and gave it a shot. Ok thanks.

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Author:	bartm [ Tue Jun 23, 2015 2:57 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Desensitised to Cold Approach?
Quote: My advice is to step away from the sarging and actually meet girls going about your day. From my experience, my lays have come from when I am carrying a frozen bag of peas, not being over dressed polished turd picking up girls style... When sarging, there is a massive pressure on your shoulders that I am convinced women can smell from a far. The 'I don't usually do this' lacks authenticity and doesn't quite land. I started to realise this AFTER I finished sarging and always seem to get solid numbers on the way home. I am not saying to ditch cold approach, but at the beginner stage, it is best to get as many approaches and reactions under your belt as much as possible, once you handle your AA, then perhaps turn it off and just make it part of you. I have approached 1000's of girls to sarge and still yet to bang a girl whilst actively day gaming. I have done about -100 approaches organically (not sarging) and I got way more numbers, dates and lays, usually after a tiring day of pick up. I am convinced the girls can feel what you feel, especially when you have approached her organically and authentically instead of being the 7th girls in the last hour. I have friends that sarge and still make it work for them though and I just can't seem to emulate that. But maybe my post speaks sense if you're more like me what's the difference between sarging and day game and cold approach? I thought these are all the same thing?

Author:	AFCEastChampion [ Tue Jun 23, 2015 4:48 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Desensitised to Cold Approach?
Sarging=going out specifically to meet women Day game=running game during the day, whether or not you left the house just to run game Cold approach=introducing yourself to a stranger with no social or business context(they're not a friend of a friend, former classmate, sales associate or bartender)

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