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Author:  blackendstars [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 6:33 am ]
Post subject:  Most of the girls I work with dont even bother saying hi
At work, I'm the one who always have to greet them when I see them. I'm the one who should always start a conversation with them. They friggin avoid eye contact as much as possible with me. Yet, they are not like that with any other guys at work ...

Now not all female workers are like that obviously but the majority of them who are attractive and in my age group (19-30) act like that.
The only times they come to talk to me is to ask a "favour" ... With all my heart I want to say no to their favours but its work related and I can't just do that. But I do say I'm busy doing something else and do your favor once I'm done.
At first I thought maybe its because I'm new at the establishment but after a month, even building rapport with them, having few laughs with them, they still don't get excited when they see me ... Sometimes they just plainly ignore me.
I also tried being cold around them to see if they would act any differently but , nope still the same behaviour .
I heard not to leech energy from them so I stopped doing that and started being more enthusiastic around them. As a result the men at work started loving me instead of the females looool
:P

Now I honestly am not even trying to hit on them but I like them to treat me like a friend and not some social outcast .
Oh did I mention I even tried kino but not to a seductive level.
Wtf should I do? Ignore them? Be cold with them? Or should I just shrug it off . I just want to be that guy who women love to hang around with .
Let me know if you want to know any further details because I know I must be doing something wrong

Thanks in advance
Author:  oceanx [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 7:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Most of the girls I work with dont even bother saying hi
What should you do?

Stop thinking about them and meet women outside of work.

When you do that, you may find that the woman at work, when you're at the beach and just about anywhere else come in from the periphery because they sense you are a man of value who other women want to be around.
Author:  blackendstars [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 3:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Most of the girls I work with dont even bother saying hi
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What should you do?

Stop thinking about them and meet women outside of work.

When you do that, you may find that the woman at work, when you're at the beach and just about anywhere else come in from the periphery because they sense you are a man of value who other women want to be around.
What do u mean? Like if I am hanging out with women outside work they could sense it without knowing my social life outside work????
Author:  oceanx [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 5:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Most of the girls I work with dont even bother saying hi
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What should you do?

Stop thinking about them and meet women outside of work.

When you do that, you may find that the woman at work, when you're at the beach and just about anywhere else come in from the periphery because they sense you are a man of value who other women want to be around.
What do u mean? Like if I am hanging out with women outside work they could sense it without knowing my social life outside work????
Yes that is exactly what I mean. Only one way to find out if what I say is true............. Get to it :D
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 3:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Most of the girls I work with dont even bother saying hi
The more you want something form someone the less likely they will be to give it to you. And if you're making an attempt to "leech" because you want their attention. You're craving for attention instead of demanding attention. Women stare at me everywhere I go simply because I demand that they do so. I walk with strength and I talk with strength. I project a vibe that they want to be apart of.

Second, To me it sounds like you're the "nice guy" with no backbone if they only talk to you to ask you for favors and you can't say "no" because its work related and so you make up an "excuse" so you don't have to do it right away. You're being the beta male nice guy that they use for "help" in response for him trying(unsuccessfully) to use them for attention.

Start telling girls "no" when you're met with one-way demands and they'll begin respecting you a lot more. This is a simple reflection of the "lack of respect" they have for you and only you know why that is. You let people walk over you and/or use you and they will.

Stand up for yourself and hold the outside world to your standards and boundaries and their respect for you will grow.
Author:  HugoMoreno [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 5:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Most of the girls I work with dont even bother saying hi
So you're the greeter at this business?

Can it maybe be a social status issue

Why would they want to "keep it cool" with
the greeter of the business when they can
be friends with the managers or whatnot
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