PUA Forum :: How to game chicks that you work with?

Find out what they like doing for fun and suggest doing that activity with them. At a high point in the interaction, you could say, "Hey, we should do (her favorite activity) sometime." Don't ask, make it a statement. She will most likely say yes because she's in a good state. Then tell her to take down your number and send you a text right in front of you, so she's already investing more than you and you know you have the right number. Then set up a solid plan and date in person, then talk a little more about other stuff so it doesn't seem that all you care about is the number and date.

If i could summarize my advice i'd say FLIRT and findout what girl is compatible with you. Then close.

you came close... but didn't actually say it so I will. Do you have any idea if any of these girls are even into you? From my exp, if you have no cues from them first that you are attractive to them, then the majority of your effort will be a waste of time.

Still approach since it makes good practice.

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I did that the first date we worked together. I have all their numbers. The problem I have is how to isolate them out for a date. It's a close group so everyone is going out and exploring Japan together. There was hardly an alone moment to kino escalate. I need some suggestion on that part. Since every time I suggest something to do, they would assume it was a group thing. I'm unsure between finding some cleverly way to get them out on a date alone or just flat out tell them to come alone.

The problem I have is how to isolate them out for a date. It's a close group so everyone is going out and exploring Japan together.

They assume it's a group thing because you're not making your intentions known to any degree.

Once that's done text a few back and forths and eventually tell her "You, me, romantic weird Japanese food. X place Y time."
Why are you looking for "clever" ways to invite them out? Are you trying to trick them into liking you or what?

Just be casual and have a good time with it. Inviting her to your room to watch a movie out of no where is a bad call.

Author:	GKS [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 1:48 am ]
Post subject:	How to game chicks that you work with?
So currently I'm working with a group of younger coworkers. 1 is a sister of my best friend which I treats like my sister. Her friends - 2 really cute 18 years old chick. So I've been just easing them into kino for the last week. They're both receptive to my touch. Nothing too sexual yet but I've placed placing my hand on their lower backs and they didn't flinch or get away. We went out for drinks occasionally but they couldn't be really loose because the other older coworkers know their moms. I haven't gotten a chance to be on a 1 on 1 hang out or date with any of them so far. 1 is a sorority girl that I work closely with, she's on my team. I see her everyday. Somewhat naive and not very bright. But she can sure move her body, definitely know her way around the bedroom. But always holding back and pretending to be good because other older coworkers know her mom for years. The other is a swim instructor, see her everyday too. but she's on the other team. She knows how to get her way with guys. Somewhat a tease but act like any typical 18 yo white chick you would expect. Think Taylor Swift. I rarely game coworkers. So I need some help about how to go about it. Just straight up ask them out on a date or get them out to the club alone without the others, let them drink and dance with them? Or just take it slow for a while? We'll be here working together for the next 8 weeks. So I'm not in a hurry but do need good suggestions or certain routine. Especially from people that have experience with this kind of situation.

Author:	WillEdward [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 1:30 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to game chicks that you work with?
Find out what they like doing for fun and suggest doing that activity with them. At a high point in the interaction, you could say, "Hey, we should do (her favorite activity) sometime." Don't ask, make it a statement. She will most likely say yes because she's in a good state. Then tell her to take down your number and send you a text right in front of you, so she's already investing more than you and you know you have the right number. Then set up a solid plan and date in person, then talk a little more about other stuff so it doesn't seem that all you care about is the number and date.

Author:	GKS [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 10:31 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to game chicks that you work with?
Quote: Find out what they like doing for fun and suggest doing that activity with them. At a high point in the interaction, you could say, "Hey, we should do (her favorite activity) sometime." Don't ask, make it a statement. She will most likely say yes because she's in a good state. Then tell her to take down your number and send you a text right in front of you, so she's already investing more than you and you know you have the right number. Then set up a solid plan and date in person, then talk a little more about other stuff so it doesn't seem that all you care about is the number and date. I did that the first date we worked together. I have all their numbers. The problem I have is how to isolate them out for a date. It's a close group so everyone is going out and exploring Japan together. There was hardly an alone moment to kino escalate. I need some suggestion on that part. Since every time I suggest something to do, they would assume it was a group thing. I'm unsure between finding some cleverly way to get them out on a date alone or just flat out tell them to come alone.

Author:	dtrak [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 8:54 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to game chicks that you work with?
I would start by getting rid of the "Scarcity" mindset. And realize that theres more girls i can fuck besides my co-workers. On that note, i'd deploy my pick up artist tactics (lol) Pick a target. Open. Attract. and if i hook and she invests i'll lead and CLOSE. Dont know how to hook girls? Learn how to attract. Dont know how to build attraction? Your fucked. lol. But what i could say is, man the fuck up and make shit happen. Girls want dick. If i were you i'd keep my eyes and senses open and as soon as one of them seems horny i'd attack. If i could summarize my advice i'd say FLIRT and findout what girl is compatible with you. Then close. You situation is very particular. But manning the fuck up never fails. And learn to think for youself. Once you know the basics you can create opportunities on your own. Warning Dont be a creeper, you are in a social circle and dont want to burn any bridges. But you can still play the circle smooth. DO NOT do anything stupid.

Author:	masterm1ne [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 9:30 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to game chicks that you work with?
Quote: If i could summarize my advice i'd say FLIRT and findout what girl is compatible with you. Then close. you came close... but didn't actually say it so I will. Do you have any idea if any of these girls are even into you? From my exp, if you have no cues from them first that you are attractive to them, then the majority of your effort will be a waste of time. Still approach since it makes good practice.

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Author:	GKS [ Wed Jun 24, 2015 10:07 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to game chicks that you work with?
Quote: you came close... but didn't actually say it so I will. Do you have any idea if any of these girls are even into you? From my exp, if you have no cues from them first that you are attractive to them, then the majority of your effort will be a waste of time. Still approach since it makes good practice. The swim instructor is. She gave me a few IOIs but I haven't gotten a lot of kino out of her. Especially after yesterday when she made a cake for the group. It was bad and I wasn't impressed so I didn't even try it. She has been trying to impressed me and qualifying herself since then. The other one is very receptive to my touch. I held her hand, rubbed her lower back, placed my hand right next to her boobs, etc... she didn't flinch and let me touch her. But I invited her over to my room to watch a movie last night and she didn't respond.

Author:	R.C [ Thu Jun 25, 2015 6:05 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to game chicks that you work with?
Quote: Quote: Find out what they like doing for fun and suggest doing that activity with them. At a high point in the interaction, you could say, "Hey, we should do (her favorite activity) sometime." Don't ask, make it a statement. She will most likely say yes because she's in a good state. Then tell her to take down your number and send you a text right in front of you, so she's already investing more than you and you know you have the right number. Then set up a solid plan and date in person, then talk a little more about other stuff so it doesn't seem that all you care about is the number and date. I did that the first date we worked together. I have all their numbers. The problem I have is how to isolate them out for a date. It's a close group so everyone is going out and exploring Japan together. There was hardly an alone moment to kino escalate. I need some suggestion on that part. Since every time I suggest something to do, they would assume it was a group thing. I'm unsure between finding some cleverly way to get them out on a date alone or just flat out tell them to come alone. They assume it's a group thing because you're not making your intentions known to any degree. Focus on building a connection with the one you like while in the group setting. Tease her, throw in some sexual innuendos, laugh. Basically flirt. Once that's done text a few back and forths and eventually tell her "You, me, romantic weird Japanese food. X place Y time." Why are you looking for "clever" ways to invite them out? Are you trying to trick them into liking you or what? Just be casual and have a good time with it. Inviting her to your room to watch a movie out of no where is a bad call.

Author:	masterm1ne [ Thu Jun 25, 2015 3:34 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to game chicks that you work with?
Quote: The problem I have is how to isolate them out for a date. It's a close group so everyone is going out and exploring Japan together. They assume it's a group thing because you're not making your intentions known to any degree. Once that's done text a few back and forths and eventually tell her "You, me, romantic weird Japanese food. X place Y time." Why are you looking for "clever" ways to invite them out? Are you trying to trick them into liking you or what? Just be casual and have a good time with it. Inviting her to your room to watch a movie out of no where is a bad call. You're absolutely on with the isolation part... From my exp being in a group and trying to escalate will run a much higher risk of ruin than isolation. It's only ever led me to sexual confusion over which girl liked me... not only that but it's not typically acceptable to be doing all sorts of sexual stuff in public unless its established you are in a relationship with the girl... which you obv are not here. I think it would be better to invite them out saying "I'm going to do X want to come with?" Either way make sure there is something in it for them besides just you. BTW doing something active like Putt Putt is much better than the standard boring movie date, although those can be executed very well.

Author:	GKS [ Thu Jun 25, 2015 10:22 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to game chicks that you work with?
Yea I know that much. But every time I invite them out. They kept asking if everyone is coming. I think I'll just have to say it straight to their faces that it will only be us. I just didn't want to push it since I know their parents and hung out with them a few times.

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