DHV'ing in the fashion you did will omonly prepare you to be used by the person you are doing it to. I don't think you want to position yourself as a possible "come up" for some girl just so you want to bang. You don't need money to attract women; all you truly need is social skills and a admirable self esteem. When you have the confidence you claim to have that in itself is enough to win a woman over.

You're already on the right track though, but positioning her for an activity outside of the work environment.

The right frame you want to project is " You just wanna recruit me so you can seduce me". Now of course this is never something you say, it is just something you project. Act it, walk it, and talk it without saying it directly. It is the frame of assuming attraction that inspires the opposite sex to be attracted to you. Women feel about us what we inspire them to feel about us with our self belief.