PUA Forum :: How do you follow-up F-closes?

Quote:

One has a boyfriend, she was feeling guilty and before I picked her up she said it'd be the last time we'd hang out - this happened Wednesday. Because of the context I knew I wasn't going to hear back from her but of these four she's the only that I had seen prior and the only one I was actually connecting with on a personal level

Its always the chick that is least available that we seem to connect with on a personal level. Don't be clouded by your emotions. The reason you really connected to her was being she was already connected to someone else. There was more taboo into the experience and she had to sacrifice more to be apart of the experience with you. That right there will create more attachment. Had she just been a regular single girl you wouldn't even be thinking about her today,

For me it depends man..

There was a long stretch in which I didn't ever want to see the women I was sleeping with ever again. Some would text me the next morning, some I would open with a simple " What are you up to text"

The guys usually open first though, a lot of women are concerned that they may not hear from the guy again and so they want the guy to initiate contact first just so they know her cares. You keep it simple and you'll be straight though.

Let me know if you want me to be a bit more specific.

Author:	MacCaddy [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 6:06 pm ]
Post subject:	How do you follow-up F-closes?
Do you text them the day after? Call them the day after? Wait for them to contact you? I've fucked 4 different girls in the last 4 days and none of them have hit me back One has a boyfriend, she was feeling guilty and before I picked her up she said it'd be the last time we'd hang out - this happened Wednesday. Because of the context I knew I wasn't going to hear back from her but of these four she's the only that I had seen prior and the only one I was actually connecting with on a personal level One almost went crazy on me - it was our first time hanging out and I guess she was trying to convey that she normally doesn't do that rather then feeding into this I just fucked her again. This happened Thursday One was a nerd, complete nerd - I met her at a soul night - she was rather annoyingly trying to wake me up at 5 AM to give her a ride to her car. I taught her how to use lyft instead. This happened Friday Then on Saturday a chick picked me up with 3 of her female friends, she was really cool. Brought me to some parties, I didn't have cash on me an she paid my way in. We went to a second party and they let me in free because I came with 4 girls (major social proof). On the way back we were making out in the backseat we got back to my car and did it in the backseat, she's the only that has contacted me after Now it's Monday and I'm 5 days into cold territory with the crazy chick, I haven't texted her but from my experience if you don't hear from someone within 3 days you're not really a factor on their world - this girl was actually the most exciting in bed despite the crazy outburst. The nerd . . I could care less of I see her again, waking me up at 5 isn't cool. Everything is cool with the last one. Would like to hear about how you guys would've handled this

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 6:18 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you follow-up F-closes?
Quote: One has a boyfriend, she was feeling guilty and before I picked her up she said it'd be the last time we'd hang out - this happened Wednesday. Because of the context I knew I wasn't going to hear back from her but of these four she's the only that I had seen prior and the only one I was actually connecting with on a personal level Its always the chick that is least available that we seem to connect with on a personal level. Don't be clouded by your emotions. The reason you really connected to her was being she was already connected to someone else. There was more taboo into the experience and she had to sacrifice more to be apart of the experience with you. That right there will create more attachment. Had she just been a regular single girl you wouldn't even be thinking about her today, For me it depends man.. There was a long stretch in which I didn't ever want to see the women I was sleeping with ever again. Some would text me the next morning, some I would open with a simple " What are you up to text" The guys usually open first though, a lot of women are concerned that they may not hear from the guy again and so they want the guy to initiate contact first just so they know her cares. You keep it simple and you'll be straight though. Let me know if you want me to be a bit more specific.

Author:	MacCaddy [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 6:51 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you follow-up F-closes?
Quote: Quote: One has a boyfriend, she was feeling guilty and before I picked her up she said it'd be the last time we'd hang out - this happened Wednesday. Because of the context I knew I wasn't going to hear back from her but of these four she's the only that I had seen prior and the only one I was actually connecting with on a personal level Its always the chick that is least available that we seem to connect with on a personal level. Don't be clouded by your emotions. The reason you really connected to her was being she was already connected to someone else. There was more taboo into the experience and she had to sacrifice more to be apart of the experience with you. That right there will create more attachment. Had she just been a regular single girl you wouldn't even be thinking about her today, For me it depends man.. There was a long stretch in which I didn't ever want to see the women I was sleeping with ever again. Some would text me the next morning, some I would open with a simple " What are you up to text" The guys usually open first though, a lot of women are concerned that they may not hear from the guy again and so they want the guy to initiate contact first just so they know her cares. You keep it simple and you'll be straight though. Let me know if you want me to be a bit more specific. Thank you for the perspective. You're probably right about the first one. The other one I'm interested in was purely because of her sexual skill, I think I'd get annoyed with her antics quickly and in that case I should just keep it moving and write this week off. I have a feeling texting her would result in one of those generic "oh so you only text me when you want" type responses. I just got off a relationship so that's why this is kind of new to me so I'm getting back to the PUA lifestyle

Author:	Mr. Assertive [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 6:54 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you follow-up F-closes?
I usually just open them in a warm way. Sex is the biggest investment for a chick and when she is the most vulnerable, so I am more affectionate than if I didn't have sex with her. I think in boyfriend territory almost, just give enough to make her know that she isn't just another notch in my bedpsst. I mean some girls I give the cold shoulder because I don't want to lead them on, but for those I like, I act warm.

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you follow-up F-closes?
Quote: I've fucked 4 different girls in the last 4 days and none of them have hit me back Maybe you should be giving us advice

PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

How do you follow-up F-closes? https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=190966	Page 1 of 1

Author:	Dragula [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 10:40 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you follow-up F-closes?
Quote: Quote: I've fucked 4 different girls in the last 4 days and none of them have hit me back Maybe you should be giving us advice i think that quote was his whole point in the making the thread to be honest.

Page 1 of 1	All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/