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Author:  Moose185 [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 12:39 am ]
Post subject:  do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
Most girl's I have met in the past have never invited me to their place. I asked one girl why not and she said she never invites guys to her place because it's her space and she doesn't feel comfortable with it.

Have other people heard this from a girl? I assumed if a girl wanted to do stuff it wouldn't matter. I've heard this from a few girls even the girls who are my friends said they wouldn't invite a guy to their place. why is this?
Author:  Verbal Seduction [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 12:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
Take em out to coffee first, then go out from there.
Be super touchy, and you can get your way into her house!
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 12:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
8 times out of 10 the first time I meet a girl I'm going to be having her over at my place. Its better for me. I'm comfortable here and don't have to waste any additional time if the chemistry isn't where I want it to be. I can ask them to leave and then rest in the comfort of my own home. You're really at the advantage if its at your place.

I have met up with girls at their place for the first time, that invited me to theirs instead of them coming to mine. It all depends on the situation to be honest. ITs always different, but if you had the choice I think its better to have them at yours the first time around.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 3:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
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8 times out of 10 the first time I meet a girl I'm going to be having her over at my place. Its better for me. I'm comfortable here and don't have to waste any additional time if the chemistry isn't where I want it to be. I can ask them to leave and then rest in the comfort of my own home. You're really at the advantage if its at your place.

I have met up with girls at their place for the first time, that invited me to theirs instead of them coming to mine. It all depends on the situation to be honest. ITs always different, but if you had the choice I think its better to have them at yours the first time around.

Quick question,

I have noticed that girls have more reasons to break seduction at their place rather than at mines. Usually since they don't know where shit is or know my place too well.

One chick comes to mind, her and her damn dogs...picks one up and places them on the bed...lol. Still a work in progress. Also, her roommates are a factor when they are in the house. Blahhhh,

Have you noticed this as well ?

OP, I would try to invite the girl to your crib more than half the time. Just easier.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 11:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
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8 times out of 10 the first time I meet a girl I'm going to be having her over at my place. Its better for me. I'm comfortable here and don't have to waste any additional time if the chemistry isn't where I want it to be. I can ask them to leave and then rest in the comfort of my own home. You're really at the advantage if its at your place.

I have met up with girls at their place for the first time, that invited me to theirs instead of them coming to mine. It all depends on the situation to be honest. ITs always different, but if you had the choice I think its better to have them at yours the first time around.

Quick question,

I have noticed that girls have more reasons to break seduction at their place rather than at mines. Usually since they don't know where shit is or know my place too well.

One chick comes to mind, her and her damn dogs...picks one up and places them on the bed...lol. Still a work in progress. Also, her roommates are a factor when they are in the house. Blahhhh,

Have you noticed this as well ?

OP, I would try to invite the girl to your crib more than half the time. Just easier.
I think it has a lot more to do with your position. The frame you project because of your circumstances. Most will take a weaker approach at a girls crib because they don't want to mess it up and have to "leave" if it comes to it. The girls kind of in charge, there is a shot she can call, for most guys. But when anywhere you go is "your own" I don't think it matters as much.

I personally haven't noticed much of a difference. I'll go in a girls fridge and start eating food without saying a word like its my own place.

Its better to ask for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission anyway.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
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8 times out of 10 the first time I meet a girl I'm going to be having her over at my place. Its better for me. I'm comfortable here and don't have to waste any additional time if the chemistry isn't where I want it to be. I can ask them to leave and then rest in the comfort of my own home. You're really at the advantage if its at your place.

I have met up with girls at their place for the first time, that invited me to theirs instead of them coming to mine. It all depends on the situation to be honest. ITs always different, but if you had the choice I think its better to have them at yours the first time around.

Quick question,

I have noticed that girls have more reasons to break seduction at their place rather than at mines. Usually since they don't know where shit is or know my place too well.

One chick comes to mind, her and her damn dogs...picks one up and places them on the bed...lol. Still a work in progress. Also, her roommates are a factor when they are in the house. Blahhhh,

Have you noticed this as well ?

OP, I would try to invite the girl to your crib more than half the time. Just easier.
I think it has a lot more to do with your position. The frame you project because of your circumstances. Most will take a weaker approach at a girls crib because they don't want to mess it up and have to "leave" if it comes to it. The girls kind of in charge, there is a shot she can call, for most guys. But when anywhere you go is "your own" I don't think it matters as much.

I personally haven't noticed much of a difference. I'll go in a girls fridge and start eating food without saying a word like its my own place.

Its better to ask for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission anyway.
You really are reckless lolol. But I hear what you're saying, I guess I have to take the frame when I am home and adopt it everywhere else. Easier said that done.. I just tend to be more polite in other people's homes but I remember back in my younger days I did the whole impulse thing. Better to ask forgiveness is something I needed to hear lately. Thanks man.
Author:  Clocks [ Sat Jun 06, 2015 10:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
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8 times out of 10 the first time I meet a girl I'm going to be having her over at my place. Its better for me. I'm comfortable here and don't have to waste any additional time if the chemistry isn't where I want it to be. I can ask them to leave and then rest in the comfort of my own home. You're really at the advantage if its at your place.

I have met up with girls at their place for the first time, that invited me to theirs instead of them coming to mine. It all depends on the situation to be honest. ITs always different, but if you had the choice I think its better to have them at yours the first time around.
How do you arrange going to a girls on the first date? That must require a lot of trust if you're arranging it before even having seen them the first time
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat Jun 06, 2015 11:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
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8 times out of 10 the first time I meet a girl I'm going to be having her over at my place. Its better for me. I'm comfortable here and don't have to waste any additional time if the chemistry isn't where I want it to be. I can ask them to leave and then rest in the comfort of my own home. You're really at the advantage if its at your place.

I have met up with girls at their place for the first time, that invited me to theirs instead of them coming to mine. It all depends on the situation to be honest. ITs always different, but if you had the choice I think its better to have them at yours the first time around.
How do you arrange going to a girls on the first date? That must require a lot of trust if you're arranging it before even having seen them the first time
This can all be done over the phone and over FaceTime/SPAM. Either one or both.

I'm definitely not the only one doing this. My phone call is my first date, my second phone call is my second date(if necessary). Talk to a girl on the phone for an hour or two and you will have developed all the trust/comfort you need.
Author:  twoontarmac [ Sun Jun 07, 2015 4:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
I try to go to their spot. This is also due to current logistics. However, when I had my own spot in BK I would go back to mine. Problem with this is they'd get to damn comfortable and I would feel bad kicking them out. This one chick pretended as if the trains didn't run. It was literally like 1:30 a.m. She could have easily hoped on the A to get back to Manhattan C'mon. I felt guilty so she crashed and I made breakfast for us in the A.M. I'm also a fucking allstar when it comes to breakfast so you wanna crash at my spot if you have the opportunity :wink:
Author:  WillEdward [ Sun Jun 07, 2015 7:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: do girls prefer to be inviting to your place?
Yea it's better to bring the girl back to your place because you have more control of the situation. You can set the lighting and mood right, put on your own music, know that you won't have any interruptions, etc. You can find out her logistics by asking her, but sometimes she won't have all the information or something unexpected by happen, like she forgot she was having a guest over or her roommates are having guests over. The plus side of pulling a girl back at her place is that she will feel more comfortable and have less LMR, but you run the risk of unexpected interruptions. Always aim to bring a girl back at your place, but depending on the situation and if it makes sense, then just pull her back to her place or even a neutral location.
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