How do I tell people about this without being like.... bragging.

they will see it, having money is like having confidence. when your rich you have this certain swagger, the places you go, the way you act and the clothes you wear will give all the right signals. you don't want a girl who is solely with you because u can pay for their plastic surgery and buy them cars.

You don't need to tell them. You didn't need to tell us. You can get better with women without the money or cars.

I wouldn't buy her anything anyway. I would always sign a prenup.

Trust me, I've seen my dad make that mistake.

Of course I need to tell them. It's part of my identity.

if you dont plan on getting them anything then whats the point of telling them?
a man who has made millions/billions himself dosent give a fuck about anything because he know that even if he lost it all he did it once and can do it again.

if you want girls to like you because ur rich then I'm sure u can go to any girl and show them your bank account on ur phone and 50% of them will get in your car. u don't even have to open ur mouth. my suggestion is just order escorts and be like Dan Bilzerian if thats what you want.

Sure I do. It obviously didn't work tonight. No girl just wants some guy with a bank account. You still have to be physically fit and have somewhat of a decent personality. Money won't get you anywhere without that.

Sign up for matchriches.com to get them gold diggers. Kidding
It is a cross between amusement and annoyance for me to listen to guys who don't get it and complaining that if you are rich/ have the money you get all the women. This is totally bullshit. Sure you can get a certain type of women who will be there to be using your resources but not because they will be attracted to you. What these guys don't understand is the bigger picture. Wealthy guys who have made their fortune will be attractive because of their passion, talents, intelligence, self confidence, social skills, persistence and go getter attitude.

On the other hand looking at offsprings of wealthy people who are lazy, unambitious, spoiled, little arrogant and who might not be particularly attractive. Even if they have a big bank account, these guys are really in a very bad position with women. Trust me I have met some of these and it would suck to be them.

If I were you and would like to meet women I would not mind to let it be revealed that I am wealthy and living an attractive lifestyle. This is who you are. You will not flush it in their face or show off when you meet. If they ask you what you do for a living you can tone it down by giving partial information in a simple way. "Real estate and developing". Anything that comes as bragging is not attractive. I might have been at fault doing this and realizing that trying to show off is needy. The mentality is that you do not have the need to impress anyone and you don't need to say many details.

Bear in mind that attracting women because of your money would make you work less hard to get good at this. But do you have the time to dedicate on this area of your life considering your ambitious goals? It is about your priorities.

On another note I had thought about it sometime in the past, if I was super wealthy and wanted to look for a serious spouse that doesn't want me only for my money that would be a hell of a task. I might have tried to search online / meet someone out and pretend to be a regular guy in the first stages of the relationship, but that would require quite an effort and you never know if it would work out.By doing this scenario and acting in order to find a regular girl who doesn't want you for the money, in the end she might be the type of person who doesn't like the demanding lifestyle of super rich with a husband that is super busy on his business and social affairs. Most of the women and people would prefer a simple lifestyle to share with their spouses.

That is why I am now making a realization that there is no point to pretend. I believe that by being successful you would be in a good position to find someone who is also successful in their own way.

It wouldn't be about giving money to them. I wouldn't do that and wouldn't want someone who wanted it. It is more about taking care of their offspring. That is why I would think they would be attracted to a rich guy.

Plus, I only work about 2 hours per week. I collect rent and hire property managers. So, it is not very busy at all, actually. It can be at times, but I always have free nights.

I am passionate about it and really want to do it. And, to be clear, I don't have it yet. But my business plan is pretty solid. Same thing Donald Trump did.

You're delusional.

When you actually get the money and the cars and the mansion, then worry about how you display it properly. But for now you should just learn how to actually approach girls without actively trying to impress them with everything you do. You're setting yourself up for failure.

And how do I approach them that way? Without trying to impress them?