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Author:  Derron Fox [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 7:31 am ]
Post subject:  How many girls to juggle at once?
Hey guys,
New to the board; not new to the game. I'm what you'd call a "natural" without much need for gimmicks, practiced lines, NLP, or anything like that. I coast by well enough on good looks, charm, improvisational humor, and fine-tuned body language. I'm a great opener and can score digits and dates without a hitch, but I seem to have problem keeping them all organized in my head. For example, if I have six girls agree to go out with me the following week... my head just aches with thinking about my own schedule, how to fit them into my schedule, what sort of date it should be for which girl... which girl is the most likely to put out vs the girl with the most value.. assessing personality types and which sort of character part to play... it's all just overwhelming.

My question is: how many girls, how many SOLID prospects should you pursue simultaneously? Is it better to pursue and seduce one prospect at a time, giving her your full attention so you can use the most effective game for her personality type? Or is it better to bash dates out one night after another, spraying universal game with your attention spread all over the place? Or is there a golden middle?

-Derron Fox
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 7:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
Click the Bang 6 Girls a Week link. Problem solved.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 11:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
I keep it at three now. With a 4th that I text every now and then, but don't really see.

Anything over 4 or 5 can be overwhelming considering women are texting and calling constantly throughout the day. Technology made it tougher. With all these apps. It also made it easier to meet girls so I guess that balances it out.

Now if you don't have to contact them or call them you can date as many as you want. Keeping up with all the text messages and pings from other apps is just the issue.
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Is it better to pursue and seduce one prospect at a time
Its only one at a time while you're out with them.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 12:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
If you have a smart phone you can just message them as you collect their digits so you kinda know the time and context. As opposed to the next night wondering which one of the 7 Sarah's was the girl that you met the previous night.

I have a habit of juggling way too many. A lot of the times it creates a frenzy with your rotation because you're too busy.

Congrats on all the sex by the way ;)

Recently I've been keeping it to 2/3 girls so I can concentrate on some other goals of mine. The old me would juggle 6 a week and it was kinda awesome but kinda emotionally draining at the same time as well as physically changing bed sheets and all that.
Author:  Versalis [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 2:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
As the above have stated, more than 3, tends to get hectic. Or else you end up with pissy, wandering girls. I'm actually down to 2 at this point. Truthfully, I basically keep two girlfriends. My turnover time is getting very low. I guess I've gained good enough screening skills that I can spot a girl I'll be happy with for many months.
But that took a lot of years.

I would say that while you should probably stick to 3 girls you're regularly seeing, make sure you keep some avenues open for the future. You'll probably have pretty high turnover, with some of the girls lasting no more than a month.
Author:  breedlove465 [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 3:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
2. I'm just too busy with work and life and friends to have more than that. Not to mention that above those two girls I still have girls that I hang out with on a very irregular basis and if you group them together it's like another girl. On top of all that I need time to spend with friends and shit and to meet new girls etc.

If I didn't care about work as much and spent less time with friends and family and just wanted to cram in as many girls as possible I still don't think I could get more than 5 but I think I'd go crazy with the logistics after a few weeks.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
This is what the noobs are thinking as they read this thread: Image
Author:  Derron Fox [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
Thanks for the replies guys.

Most of you are talking about 2 or 3 girls you've already slept with, in which case it's no problem keeping them around on a rotation. But what I'm asking is, how many is it logical to pursue at the same time before sleeping with them. I've already got one fuck buddy on the back-burner, and in the meantime I want to chase as much tail as I can effectively handle. Obviously. The current six-in-one-week date scheme is too hectic; I'm likely to agree with you that 2 or 3 is probably the safest bet. Is there any quick filter you use to weed out flakes out-right without being rude about it.. because there's nothing worse than spam texting girls, to have 3 of them agree to meet on the same night... so you pick the hottest, and then last minute she flakes--leaving you high and dry.

P.S. Dragula--that's funny as shit man, you had me crackin' up!
Author:  Noone [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:30 pm ]
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This is what the noobs are thinking as they read this thread: Image

Hey!! I have hair.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
I guess you would feel a different attraction for different girls so some would prioritise more than others, some seem more keen than others etc etc

But also some are have more time available than the others. Just text them all and you will find a way to meet them all somehow. Sometimes it works like magic and that you mention you're busy with a girl on a Tue, and then the hotter girl mentions she is also free Tue, so then you end up telling the hotter one you're busy.

This only helps you because you're a busy guy and she start to think why you're not available like all the other guys that want to get into her love hole and it all syndicates into place and you get laid more now that you're busy than we you did when you were completely dry of vagina.

This is exactly what a typical decent single girl goes through when she is in date mode.

Poet - ;)
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
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Thanks for the replies guys.

Most of you are talking about 2 or 3 girls you've already slept with, in which case it's no problem keeping them around on a rotation. But what I'm asking is, how many is it logical to pursue at the same time before sleeping with them. I've already got one fuck buddy on the back-burner, and in the meantime I want to chase as much tail as I can effectively handle. Obviously. The current six-in-one-week date scheme is too hectic; I'm likely to agree with you that 2 or 3 is probably the safest bet. Is there any quick filter you use to weed out flakes out-right without being rude about it.. because there's nothing worse than spam texting girls, to have 3 of them agree to meet on the same night... so you pick the hottest, and then last minute she flakes--leaving you high and dry.

P.S. Dragula--that's funny as shit man, you had me crackin' up!
This is hard for me to take seriously because there are going to be the ones that you prefer over the others. The women you prefer are going to get your time and the others won't. It doesn't get any harder than that. It's not going to be a magic number that you have to figure out.

How you describe yourself in the initial post, flaking shouldn't be an issue. So why worry about that part?
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 6:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
try to do dates more spontaneous. if you want to juggle a lot of chicks expect to see these checks less than two times a week
Author:  Derron Fox [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
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This is hard for me to take seriously because there are going to be the ones that you prefer over the others. The women you prefer are going to get your time and the others won't. It doesn't get any harder than that. It's not going to be a magic number that you have to figure out.

How you describe yourself in the initial post, flaking shouldn't be an issue. So why worry about that part?


Yes, there are ones that I prefer more over others. But are the girls I prefer the ones that are most likely to put out in the least amount of time? Or at all outside the confines of a relationship? (I live in Ukraine, where girls are more traditional and one night stands are rare)

These are all factors to consider when planning your dates on which day, and who to give priority to.

As far as flaking goes--as long as humans have the ability to change their minds.. there will ALWAYS be flaking. Doesn't matter how good the initial meet--a girl can and will flake for any or no reason. I'm wondering if there's some sort of magical text or phrasing that will either prevent it from happening in the first place, or what the appropriate response to flaking should be.

As I said before, I don't consider myself a PUA or an expert--just a natural that would like to fine tune his game and learn some new tricks.

-Derron Fox
Author:  Versalis [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 9:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
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Most of you are talking about 2 or 3 girls you've already slept with, in which case it's no problem keeping them around on a rotation. But what I'm asking is, how many is it logical to pursue at the same time before sleeping with them.
However many you have time for.
I don't think there's an optimal number there. But I'd say that you don't need to invest much time in any particular girl before you've slept with her. The ones that want to sit and text/fb chat, etc for 4 hours, are usually the ones who never lead to sex regardless of time investment.
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Is there any quick filter you use to weed out flakes out-right without being rude about it.. because there's nothing worse than spam texting girls, to have 3 of them agree to meet on the same night... so you pick the hottest, and then last minute she flakes--leaving you high and dry.
I don't really get flakes much at all. Are these girls you're interacting with in a bar/coffee shop for a few minutes, or what? How are you meeting them?
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 9:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How many girls to juggle at once?
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As far as flaking goes--as long as humans have the ability to change their minds.. there will ALWAYS be flaking. Doesn't matter how good the initial meet--a girl can and will flake for any or no reason.
This is a bad belief. If a building is built on solid foundation it won't fall unless there is some sort of disaster. The same goes with women. Unless there is a legitimate reason, a girl won't flake if she finds you attractive and interesting. It's your job to set that foundation.
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