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| Author: | Clocks [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 10:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Kino + leading questions? |
Hello, Q1: How do you maintain the kino without coming across as overbearing? I was with a girl tonight and I started with hug/kiss on cheek and then took her hand. Kissed on the cheek a few times after and then not long after again I kissed on the mouth a bit but couldn't get any further for rest of the night. It was mostly quick kisses on the lips but a few lingering with tongue. I kissed her neck a bit, had my hand on her thighs, playing with her hair and then a bit down her jeans (back). They say don't stop if she doesn't say no, but I felt like I had my hands all over her and she wasn't initiating a lot of kino herself (she did touch me a bit mid date (arms, leg) and wiped her lipstick off me but the rest was me touching her). I put her hand on my erection at one point and she laughed and withdrew it. I felt like I was draping over her a bit and had my arm stretched to touch her a lot of the time. I was aware of this but thought it better that I initiate the touching rather than not touch at all. Is it better for me to lean back in my chair and maybe lightly touch her arm than lean over her and kiss her neck, rub her with my arm stretched? Q2: She was the most assertive woman I've ever gone out with. She tried to lead the way and pick the tables, etc. I teased her about it, took her hand and tried to lead as best I could (normally I'm 100% in control) but she knew what she wanted and it seemed stupid to argue for the sake of it (no, let's sit here instead, no i'm not hungry so let's not eat, etc). I sensed she was like this when I originally took her number and she didn't take my compliance test of putting her number into my phone (told me to just put it in, to which I replied 'bossy'). Also, started messaging me on SPAM telling me let's do this instead of texts now. And when I asked 'when can I see you next?' at the end of the date (something I always do which is normally fine) she told me we'll arrange it over SPAM. I had fun on the date but am wondering if I need to force the leading? Thanks as always. |
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