Quote: I'm slowly improving my level of game to the point where I'm getting a number every week or so after 10-20 minute conversations at the grocery store. The problem is that I don't know how to properly handle these numbers. I've waited a few days to text and texted the same day a few hours later (usually with something like "Hi GIRL'S NAME, this is MY NAME. Here's my number so you have it. It was nice talking with you today. Enjoy your weekend!"). Is this coming off as overeager? I was also considering calling a few days later to set up a date rather than text at all. I understand that attraction is not easily generated through texting (and that's not what I'm trying to do), I'm just trying to get a response so I can then set up the logistics of a date with her.
10 - 20 minute convos should be more than enough to get a response usually this kind of problems appear to people who take numbers after 2 minute talks , like i do a lot so i know i should live with a high drop rate .
1. in your case try to see that you are not making the introduction convo too long ... meaning let it drop in the energy level .
2. try to be the one that ends the conversation when you meet .
3. try to text them on the spot somthing playful like "who is the hot guy near you ??"
4. try to do some time bridging in your sets - you have 2 options for that :
1 - smooth : "so i will call you in the next couple of days and you can join me next time i do yoga/smoke hooka "whatever .
2 - hardcore - i fucking love this
" so i will call you tomorrow and we will go out for coffee or bear and if we will have good chemistry i will seduce you " and smile
in addition it is always better to call someone you called approached .
from 1 simple reason !!
its easier to text right ?
she knows that !
and thats what most of the idiots who hit on here do !
so you will be the one that has no problem to give her a call and talk to her
texting before you have sex its only for pure flirting if you have somthing good to right thats my opinion
good luck
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