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| Author: | thequietlife [ Sun May 31, 2015 8:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I lost my fucking mind. |
This girl Katie can be really flirty, I may be misunderstanding the body language (this is where I’d like some clarity) Shell grind her bum and can be touchy feely in a jokey sort of way. In the club she got her and a friend and sandwiched me between them and started grinding me. However she always insults me and basically tells me it will never happen really brutally almost over the top( I’ve never told her I like her, and when I do its just sarcastic jokey) But at the same time I feel she leaves opening to be flirty and touchy with her like holding hands potentially grab her butt( I haven’t but, I feel like she puts this little things in where the opportunity is there) She kissed my friend before, on a night out prior to this one. She said she wasn’t into him, but she lets him get touchy feel, she tries to play it down and tell him to stop when he does, but you can see she kind of enjoys it). Prior to this night me and my friend Rosie( her best friend, who also said he’s not her type blab la bla, I know my friend inside out blab la bla) said she wouldn’t kiss him again, I betted they would. I caught them kissing and I completely lost my mind. It ruined the end of my night, I was funny with my friend and completely blanked the girl the morning. I don’t want people to think its oneitis. I’ts just this situation or a similar situation has happened time and time again and I just got fed up of it, sick of being the one to not pull or get the scraps.( in reality I know I’ts neither of their fault, It’s just what happened naturally) The only difference was I thought I was getting the signals to act, however I didn’t and I guess you could say my friend just took charge and escalated on both times. I want to make it clear it’s not this one girl that’s the problem, it’s the fact it’s happened so many times, or where my friends will walk into a club and girls will flock them, I wouldn’t say I’m ugly and I get told my dress sense is always good. Just background how we both game(he’s a natural not into pua) he almost makes out its a girlfriend, cuddles them etc etc he really chases them it’s over the top type thing but it works for him. My approach is I tend to get shit tested hard so I almost have this rivalry (well throw insults back and forth but its just joking) approach between me and girl and I’m not touchy feely at all. The questions I have are • Am I miss reading signals • Should I be more physical • And why the fuck did I lose my mind when i saw them kiss again |
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| Author: | CaptainJack [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 1:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I lost my fucking mind. |
Step 1: Stop all kino with her. If she tries to get you to do any kind of kino tell her "hands off" Step 2: Game other girls like mad. Captain Jack |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 1:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I lost my fucking mind. |
This post sure sounds like your other posts. You create a post every other day with these chicks in it! Maybe you should find some new targets, man. You have so many issues with this one/these ones that you can't possibly even be having fun with this. It's supposed to be fun. |
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| Author: | Gallahad [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 1:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I lost my fucking mind. |
You know what to do. In the future, escalate physically when ever you get the notion to do it in your brain. This is your sticking point, and to correct it, I would advise that you escalate to an extent that makes you uncomfotrable and pushes you out of your comfort zone. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 2:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I lost my fucking mind. |
Really bro? These same girls again? And again? And again? You have to ditch them. And you're stories getting mixed up more and more. One day her friend insults you by saying she's out of you league, the next day she's the one insulting you telling you it would never happen. They're holing you back buddy. You can never get ahead a car thats in front of you driving up a one way street. Even if the car runs out of gas, you'll still be stuck behind it. You need to get ahead, so you need to reverse and pick a new street. You muster up the courage to ditch these girls and that will contribute to you gaining a bit of the confidence its going to take to pull girls like them. |
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| Author: | thequietlife [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 4:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I lost my fucking mind. |
I think the answer i was looking for was a combination of captain jack and poon slayer answers. I think the question i'm asking is too complicated and there's too many stories within the stories that can easily be lead to misinterpretation. I'm not knocking charles or eddie(always look out for their posts), i just think the story is too complex for me to explain all the nuances. I was just looking to see if anyone spotted where i made the mistakes in terms of escalation, or whether i was just wasting my time to begin with. My friend the "out of your league one", she says a lot of stuff about other people negative things, that can be over the top.( that's just her personality,she's like this with EVERYONE) however this time this comment really got to me.I don't agree the girl in question is out of my league. its just when she kept saying it just got me.I felt like I had something to prove. The long and short of the story i feel is, i should escalate when my body tells me and not worry what the girl say. Especially when she was in my room getting changed asking for help with her zip. Girls talk a lot of shit , say one thing and mean the opposite( this is currently where i'm getting stuck, not pushing to find out what they really mean)i'm not fucking you tonight, i'm not coming back, your ugly. Yet you can still get with them. Sometimes the 100% mean it, i just feel this time i let my chance slip, my friend escalated better( he's better looking, that did have something to play into it) I still cant work out why i flipped out so badly. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 5:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I lost my fucking mind. |
Quote: I think the answer i was looking for was a combination of captain jack and poon slayer answers. I think the question i'm asking is too complicated and there's too many stories within the stories that can easily be lead to misinterpretation.
That may have been the answer you wanted to hear, but it's not the answer you needed to hear.Want a band-aid solution... Go for the easy fix. Want a permanent solution that'll change your game and improve your life, listen to Eddie. |
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| Author: | thequietlife [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 5:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I lost my fucking mind. |
I do agree with what eddy, it's just frustrating me I have to deal with the scrap or not get any girls at all. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Jun 01, 2015 8:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I lost my fucking mind. |
Quote: I do agree with what eddy, it's just frustrating me I have to deal with the scrap or not get any girls at all.
And I telling you the first step you have to take to begin. Right now you're scraping the bottom of the barrel trying to take anything you can get. You want a woman putting you down and degrading you. That further destroys your self esteem with time. You gain self esteem by recognizing your value and walking away. The higher your self esteem the higher quality of woman you will attract. The lower, the lower the women. You have to make sacrifices to get what you want. You don't want to make any sacrifices; you just want everything to come to do. Give one up, get two others. Try it. Everything else you're doing isn't working.
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| Author: | Rico_luts [ Tue Jun 02, 2015 12:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I lost my fucking mind. |
Quote: Step 1: Stop all kino with her. If she tries to get you to do any kind of kino tell her "hands off"
i AGREE Step 2: Game other girls like mad. Captain Jack GIVE HER A LOT OF PUSH RIGHT NOW WHEN IT COMES TO PHISCL TOUCH I WILL ALSO ADD AGRRSIVE WORDS LIKE : "YOU ARE PRETTY COOL TODAY I ACTUALLY MADE ME WANNA FUCK YOU HARD !, DID YOU HEAR ABOUT THE NEW ICE CREAM PLACE ? " THAT WILL SHOW HER THAT YOU ARE NOT AFRAID TO BE SEXUAL . |
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