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Author:  NewFish [ Thu May 21, 2015 6:12 pm ]
Post subject:  "Rollercoaster Relationship" When a couple is constantly bre
I know a girl (long string, using her to meet other girls) who breaks up and gets back together withe her boyfrend (they've been together...ish since january) literally every week, or at least couple of weeks.

He is not her type. I've known her for a couple years now and she usually goes for classy (well dressed, nice car, good job) guys who are douches and dump her after a couple months. This one has a dead-end job, "gangsta" look with the cap and hoodie and is needy as fuck.

So first, can a relationship like this have any sort of future? Why do people do it?

Second, any tips to get with this girl?
Author:  neo87 [ Thu May 21, 2015 6:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Rollercoaster Relationship" When a couple is constantly
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I know a girl (long string, using her to meet other girls) who breaks up and gets back together withe her boyfrend (they've been together...ish since january) literally every week, or at least couple of weeks.

He is not her type. I've known her for a couple years now and she usually goes for classy (well dressed, nice car, good job) guys who are douches and dump her after a couple months. This one has a dead-end job, "gangsta" look with the cap and hoodie and is needy as fuck.

So first, can a relationship like this have any sort of future? Why do people do it?

Second, any tips to get with this girl?
LoL...no tips here but that last line made me giggle
Author:  R.C [ Thu May 21, 2015 6:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Rollercoaster Relationship" When a couple is constantly
Why exactly would you want someone like that?
Author:  NewFish [ Fri May 22, 2015 3:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Rollercoaster Relationship" When a couple is constantly
Because she's hot and I'm horny.

But the question is really about the dynamics of their relationship. I mean, from what I've experienced and seen couples either work well and remain together or they split and move on. They may sometimes take a pause to re-evaluate things and get back together, but it happens once or twice, not every other week. What the hell is that?
Author:  hugge [ Fri May 22, 2015 4:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Rollercoaster Relationship" When a couple is constantly
We can only speculate. Here are a few alternatives that comes to mind.

1. She sticks to anything she can get, is needy and desperate, or maybe afraid of being alone/single. That would mean that she should be easy to steal, unless...

2. She is stupid and can't tell when one guy is better than another, unable to recognize high quality.

3. She is a drama queen who depends on emotional stimulus (interpretation: her life is otherwise very dull). People in general are bored and need stimulation, and creating drama can give them that. Maybe he is the perfect guy for that.

4. He has some qualities that strongly attracts her, but others that repel her (neediness) and she simply can't make up her mind on what to do.

If it's number 2, forget her. If it's number 3, it's time to learn how to become overexcited, energetic and hysterical, or take drugs. Otherwise, she needs a hero to resque her. A better man. I believe the chances are in you favor here. ;)
Author:  Chief [ Fri May 22, 2015 4:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Rollercoaster Relationship" When a couple is constantly
This is a pretty straightforward seduction.

She's on and off with her boyfriend, meaning that there will be plenty of windows of opportunity when she feels like she needs to make a big change in her life. Normally such a big change can mean a different dick if a seductive dick presents itself and becomes an easy and persuasive option.

There won't even be a need for any boyfriend destroyers as far as I can tell from what you've told us. Just establish yourself as a sexual option by flirting with her a lot and capitalize on it at the opportune moment.

However, based on your writing I am guessing that you're a bit inexperienced when it comes to attracting/seducing women so you're going to want to get up to speed on the basics of attraction and shit first.
Author:  NewFish [ Fri May 22, 2015 5:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Rollercoaster Relationship" When a couple is constantly
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We can only speculate. Here are a few alternatives that comes to mind.

1. She sticks to anything she can get, is needy and desperate, or maybe afraid of being alone/single. That would mean that she should be easy to steal, unless...

2. She is stupid and can't tell when one guy is better than another, unable to recognize high quality.

3. She is a drama queen who depends on emotional stimulus (interpretation: her life is otherwise very dull). People in general are bored and need stimulation, and creating drama can give them that. Maybe he is the perfect guy for that.

4. He has some qualities that strongly attracts her, but others that repel her (neediness) and she simply can't make up her mind on what to do.

If it's number 2, forget her. If it's number 3, it's time to learn how to become overexcited, energetic and hysterical, or take drugs. Otherwise, she needs a hero to resque her. A better man. I believe the chances are in you favor here. ;)
I would put my money on a mix of 3 and 1. Any tips on how to recque her and be the better man?

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However, based on your writing I am guessing that you're a bit inexperienced when it comes to attracting/seducing women so you're going to want to get up to speed on the basics of attraction and shit first.
Yes I am. I have been with very few women and just discovered game a few months ago. In fack, I believe this girl had some initial atraction for me but I stalled on D Day and ended up looking like an insecure idiot.

Ani seduction 101 or atraction crash course you can recomend to put me up to speed?
Author:  Chief [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:24 pm ]
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Ani seduction 101 or atraction crash course you can recomend to put me up to speed?
I wrote a book called Attraction Arsenal that helps you with exactly that:

my-new-ebook-attraction-arsenal-vt182696.html
Author:  NewFish [ Mon May 25, 2015 5:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Rollercoaster Relationship" When a couple is constantly
Thanks, Chief. I'll give it a read.

In the meantime, any more material? Especially articles or threads that are faster to read.

Just a last update: I was with her this last weekend and it probably is in fact a mix of 1 and 3. She told me herself that her life is very boring and from what I gather her bf is a textbook provider.
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