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| Author: | Mr13652 [ Wed May 20, 2015 3:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Does this work? |
I hope this is the right place to post this. I'll just cut to the chase, does any of this stuff actually work? I have a hard time believing any of this works. I feel like if you are ugly you are just shit out of luck. I do not consider myself attractive, I have a hard time pulling girls, and the ones I do get are not high caliber. My attractive friends literally sit there and girls approach them. My one friend for example sits in class and is literally the biggest douche I know. He treats everyone like shit and the girls eat that shit like its cake. All because he is good looking. And then he just acts like he is a God because he knows he can do whatever the hell he wants. I am so damn tired of watching my friends pull 9's and 10's. So back to the point, does this stuff work? All of these techniques? Is it possible for a below average guy to pull 10's? I cant help but feel like all of us none attractive people just got screwed. I am not even a weird guy either, I play football, track, basketball and track. I workout everyday and I have a social life. I am not super ugly, just not attractive. I feel like being ugly is a HUGE disadvantage. Because (in my opinion) as soon as a girl sees a ugly person she (and other people also) automatically place you at a low value. Then they don't give a flying shit about you and they do not want to talk to you. I want to get the high caliber girls. Like the 8,9 and 10's. If this stuff works then I want to learn everything possible. I am tired of being unconfident, I want to become the person I know I should be. Not some weak beta. Anyways, I appreciate all of the help and replies! |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed May 20, 2015 3:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does this work? |
You're here on a site full of guys that do this stuff. So our answer will be sort of obvious. Have you ever had a girl that was into you? |
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| Author: | Mr13652 [ Wed May 20, 2015 3:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does this work? |
Quote: You're here on a site full of guys that do this stuff. So our answer will be sort of obvious. Have you ever had a girl that was into you?
Yeah I have a few girls into me right now, they just aren't high caliber. Not even worth investing my time into honestly.You are right, it is just hard for me imagining unattractive guys (such as myself) overcoming the fact that they are unattractive (unless they have money and power). Like why would a 10 go after a 4 or a 5? Most attractive guys would be extremely confident and outgoing. So would she rather have a confident and outgoing 4 or a outgoing and confident 9 or 10? I think its pretty obvious. Do not get it twisted. I am brand new here and just want to learn. (I appreciate the reply.) |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed May 20, 2015 3:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does this work? |
So I am assuming that since there are girls into you, all you need to do is be better with women to get the better women. Let's accept the fact that you will probably never be the guy that has girls approaching him. Instead, you need to turn into the guy that girls won't want to let walk away. |
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| Author: | RockstarPUA [ Wed May 20, 2015 8:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does this work? |
Quote: So I am assuming that since there are girls into you, all you need to do is be better with women to get the better women. Let's accept the fact that you will probably never be the guy that has girls approaching him. Instead, you need to turn into the guy that girls won't want to let walk away.
I think that hits the nail right on the head there. What do you feel makes you unattractive? you say you play lots of sports so i assume you've got an okay physique which is a big plus to be honest, so no worries there. Im sure you've identified what you dont like about yourself, so really you just need to find ways of overcoming those insecurities and making yourself as attractive as possible. I've struggled all my life with insecurities about my looks. I've always had a large forehead, so I always have a fringe to cover it. I've also got a weak jawline, so I grew a jawline beard and goatee, which does wonders for giving the effect of a strong jaw. I also have dark circles under my eyes which always makes me look tired, so I apply concealer on them and use other skin products and fake tan etc. So say you're worried you have big ears or a big nose, then when you're next at the hairdresser say you want a haircut that will take focus away from those things. I'm not sure if the things I do actually make me more attractive, but they make me FEEL more attractive, and that goes a long way to improving my confidence. I know i'm going out being my best self physically. And to address your question of 'does this stuff work', there isnt a yes or no answer to that really. Basically I would say on the whole, yes, it works. But it will take a long time to figure out what works for you. Theres a lot of different ways people do things and a lot of the time they contradict eachother. So basically you have to figure out what will work for you. If you really want to study pickup you'll have to sift through a lot of bullshit to find the gems. Some of the time you'll recognise straight away what wont work for you, and other times you'll have to test them in real life. Also, I said before that you should identify what you dont like about yourself and overcome it, but also you need to identify everything you do like - physically and personally. Are you smart, are you funny, do you have good conversation skills etc. If you approach a girl feeling your most attractive and knowing that you are funny and interesting or whatever, that will show and she will react to it. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed May 20, 2015 12:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does this work? |
A little research will take you a long way. Theres tons of videos and audio's and other post all proving that pulling random girls on the streets, malls, nightclubs is 100% possible. It is more so how you feel about your looks than it is your actual looks that are hindering you. I know some fairly decent looking guys that think they're ugly. Just as I know some fit girls who think they're fat. A woman is responding to your frame/inner emotion more than she is responding to your external. And attractive guy who sees himself as ugly will not get laid, and if thats true then I also believe the reverse is also true. Act like a God, walk like a God and talk like a God and women will respond to you in the only way a woman can respond to a God. |
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| Author: | Mr13652 [ Wed May 20, 2015 1:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does this work? |
Thank you guys! I really appreciate the replies |
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