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Author:  JohnCC [ Tue May 05, 2015 12:33 am ]
Post subject:  Confused. What are her intentions?
Been seeing a girl from uni for a while. We went for coffee in the morning, and she mentioned how she had been on 3 dates with a course mate of hers, and wasn't sure how he felt about her. She then asked if I'm dating any other girls.

Anyways, later in the evening we decided to head to a bar. Was some serious kino going on butI ended up getting cockblocked by a friend of hers.
Afterwards I started teasing her about this course mate of hers, to which she kept on saying she doesn't like him. I decided to give her some payback and mentioned how hot a mutual friend of ours is, and the vibes I got off her were slight jealousy (she didn't agree this girl is hot, when she's a solid 8).

Right now I am unsure what she is playing at. She gave me some serious IOi's in the evening when we had some alcohol in our systems, but when sober she was talking about this coursemate of hers.

What do you guys make of this?
Author:  Noone [ Tue May 05, 2015 1:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Confused. What are her intentions?
Quote:
Been seeing a girl from uni for a while. We went for coffee in the morning, and she mentioned how she had been on 3 dates with a course mate of hers, and wasn't sure how he felt about her. She then asked if I'm dating any other girls.

Anyways, later in the evening we decided to head to a bar. Was some serious kino going on butI ended up getting cockblocked by a friend of hers.
Afterwards I started teasing her about this course mate of hers, to which she kept on saying she doesn't like him. I decided to give her some payback and mentioned how hot a mutual friend of ours is, and the vibes I got off her were slight jealousy (she didn't agree this girl is hot, when she's a solid 8).

Right now I am unsure what she is playing at. She gave me some serious IOi's in the evening when we had some alcohol in our systems, but when sober she was talking about this coursemate of hers.

What do you guys make of this?
Make a move on her. Either she reciprocates and you're in.. or you wait too long and some other guy snatches her up. I missed out on a couple great girls by not pursuing while other guys pursued. One girl even said, "why didn't you ask me out before he did?".

No regrets!
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue May 05, 2015 12:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Confused. What are her intentions?
What do YOU make of it man?

There are a lot more factors to this story that we couldn't possibly gather through a written post. Did you make any escalation forward moves? Or was it just banter? It sounds like you're friend zoning yourself to be honest. You're too concerned with her intentions instead of your own. You're playing kid games (ie. Getting pay back) instead of just grabbing the bull by the horns when the girl is in front of you.
Author:  R.C [ Tue May 05, 2015 12:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Confused. What are her intentions?
Hey I'm all for "getting payback", it certainly has it's uses but there's a time and place for that.

Other than that, what Eddie said. Focus on your intentions, not hers. Assume attraction.
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