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Author:  nonviolence [ Sun May 03, 2015 8:21 pm ]
Post subject:  How can I open her after this?
Hello my friends.
So I was very drunk at a party sometime ago and I ended up kissing with this girl.
I met her again yesterday and there she said that she had been thinking about if I could remember her and then she asked me if I could remember her name (I could lol). Later the same day she asked me the same question again If I could remember her name (lol?) and then she asked me If I could remember we kissed. Then she said to me I'm a bad kisser because I bite her lips too much. Lol. Then later the same night I ended up crying (I was so drunk that I can't remember why I was crying) for a few hours while she comforted me. Hmm. Is that good or bad?
So my question is do you have any tips on how I should handle this?
Now today she added me on Facebook.
Any ideas on what I could write to her on Facebook? Maybe a joking opener about some of the thing that happened yesterday?
Thanks :)
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon May 04, 2015 12:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I open her after this?
lol you cried? Well just get the phone number. I wouldn't bother with wall posting, you are moving forward fast enough.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon May 04, 2015 12:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I open her after this?
Crying in front of a chick is never a good thing unless you've been shot or your dog died.

:)
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon May 04, 2015 12:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I open her after this?
Quote:
Crying in front of a chick is never a good thing unless you've been shot or your dog died.

:)

Unless he can spin it in a way...he could lie...save himself. But bad move by the op nonetheless
Author:  nonviolence [ Mon May 04, 2015 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I open her after this?
Haha yeah I cried but it is really a big mistake? It might have created something emotionel between us, who knows. But I can't see the problem in showing some feelings? :)
However was thinking of some openers I could use at her on Facebook.
Maybe I can try to open with something related to what she said like:
"Who is it you are? I don't remember your name."
then reply with: "I think I will call you troublemaker because...."
Or do you have any ideas?

Or maybe it would just be better to ignore what we had done together and open her with something random? :)

thanks.
Author:  mojo.dojo [ Mon May 04, 2015 9:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I open her after this?
*bows*

I am not a PUA, or an expert on what girls do or don't like, but I don't think crying is a huge deal as long as you don't do it every time she sees you.

Also, it sounds like you did it during a situation of trust and safety. It's not like you were in a fight, got your ass kicked, and started crying for the person to stop hitting you... You did it at a time when it was safe for you to experience your emotions.

I'd say it's neutral, neither good or bad. Just put it behind you. Probably depends on the girl, her dad, her family, cultural stuff... that's just a guess. Good luck.

Like I said, I know nothing. Just did my intro here two days ago.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon May 04, 2015 9:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I open her after this?
How old are you man?

The post sounds like it was written by a 15 year old. The mentality and what I presume to be emotional maturity. You can't remember why you were crying? Come on bro. You weren't that drunk.

Now, my great uncle had gotten more women that any man I have ever known. My dad would tell me about him, so when I finally got a chance ask him what his secret was, he said " I've been with thousands of women in my life time, and not once did any of them not that I was worried or that I had a problem. My problems were my problems and my worries are my worries. A woman wants a man to cast her worries upon, to help be the solution to her problem. The man can't play both sides. You have two times to cry in front of your woman in your entire life time. Two times. Cry a third and she'll never see you the same again."

I know the the new age theory is that its okay for a man to show emotion. That's feminist propaganda. The men before our didn't weren't running around all emotional, and they all seemed to hold onto their women. The Pick up community and communities like it were spawned to help the defeated man of today. Men didn't always have these problems in the multitude we have them today. So just be aware of that. Man and women have become "equal" by law and so its confused us into thinking we're equal by nature. And we just aren't. As a whole every masculine mammal in nature is superior to their female counter part. Theres no fear of the women, theres no anxiety. Its only exist among humans because of the laws set in place.

You don't get to cry.


Now, I'm having a hard time figuring out how you've made out with the girl, hung out with her twice and still need to find a way to open her. Theres something missing from this story..

The second time you hung with her, how was that arranged?
Author:  R.C [ Tue May 05, 2015 2:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I open her after this?
She's into you. For some reason.

Nah but you don't seem to take yourself too seriously and that's good. Probably why she didn't take the crying like a little bitch thing too seriously. Doesn't matter how you open her unless it's the generic "Hey, what's up". She's already receptive towards you.

Read my texting guide if you want some perspective on text game, but other than that I'd say you have a clear shot with her.
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