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Author:  Stallionn [ Tue Apr 28, 2015 10:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Disinterested
Hi guys, I have been wondering something that maybe you all can help me with. I am living in Italy right now. I went out a couple Saturdays ago and I managed to take home a Sicilian girl. We of course, did the deed. She seemed very into me that night. We went out for breakfast the next day and seemed so into it all to the point that she messaged me the following wednesday and asked me "do you have time for a Sicilian fuck buddy tonight?". Of course I said yes and she came over again and we repeated the events of Saturday (of course not as drunk). However, the friday after, I asked her to come over again and she just said "Hi! :) I am sorry I am not available tonight" and that's it. Then I messaged her again tonight (wed after) and she replied after the whole day waiting saying "Hey J :) sorry but this week I am a bit busy. Incase I do become free, I will write you when I am ;) have a good night Canadian ;)." (that's what she calls me)

Sorry for the long test but I don't really know if she is just not into it anymore or if she is. Also, if she isn't, I would like to know what the hell I did wrong so I don't do the same thing next time. It's been bothering me quite a bit. Maybe it's residual scarring from my last relationships and I am over thinking everything. Any thoughts gentlemen?
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Apr 28, 2015 11:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Disinterested
Sounds like you are being a little too sensitive. She let you know up front that you are her fuck buddy. She even told you if she gets a free night this week, she'll let you know. Most women will just say that they're busy this week and not give you an indicator that she is still interested. She said if she can get a free night, she's going to let you know. Let this week go by before you decide that she's not interested.
Author:  odyn [ Wed Apr 29, 2015 2:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Disinterested
From what you wrote she sounds like a super cool girl. Don't fuck it up by becoming needy and why would you? You are a canadian living in Italy! who just hooked up with a silician girl! Your still in a foreign county where you can go out and do just about anything you want. Why waste this time worrying about some girl you hooked up with. Enjoy it for what it is and maybe you get to keep hooking up? If not so what? I'm sure there are plenty of other Italian women who would love to meet a Canadian.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Apr 29, 2015 9:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Disinterested
Its also possible she has a boyfriend or a husband.

Why are you trying to make a girlfriend out of such a girl? Where is all this emotional attachment i sense in your post coming from?

Chill dude.

Why chase someone that clearly doesn't want to be tied down.
Author:  DominicKrow [ Wed Apr 29, 2015 10:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Disinterested
Just go next bro!

Next!
Author:  Stallionn [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 9:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Disinterested
Hey Guys, thanks for the replies. I appreciate it.

I don't think she has a boyfriend. She admitted this to me and she has roommates so it's doubtful she has a husband. I don't think it's that I am getting attached to her. I believe what is bothering me (besides not getting some more great sex) is not getting the upper hand in my relationships with women just like in this situation here. I mean, isn't that why we are all here? Too get better with our relationships and learn to not ruin everything? I mean the other thing is that, if she really doesn't like me anymore, I want to know why so I can improve for the next time. It's not that I want to attach myself to her but it would be nice to have another stable fuck buddy.

Ha I feel like I am opening a whole other can of worms here, but I feel this is an honest forum where honest people can come and share their experiences and feelings.

Let me know what you guys think.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 11:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Disinterested
Quote:
Its also possible she has a boyfriend or a husband.

Why are you trying to make a girlfriend out of such a girl? Where is all this emotional attachment i sense in your post coming from?

Chill dude.

Why chase someone that clearly doesn't want to be tied down.

These questions were rhetorical.

It was a perspective.

The mentality I displayed that asked the questions is the mentally that will make her more likely to chase you because you will be investing less thought into her.

It is the energy you are giving off that is causing her not to chase you. You gotta CHILL. And let her come to you. She will. Doing "nothing" is sometimes all you have to do.
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