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| Author: | 1Optimus1 [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 6:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Cold-warm emotions VS warm-cold emotions |
I just ended a year and 10months relationship.This is my third,long realtionship. Previous two relationships were 1 year and 9 months. In all these three I ended up loving those girls and they didnt love me anymore.At first it was opposite,they wanted me to be with me and I didnt wanted to be with them.And every time I ended up with a broken hearth and doing some DLV actions like moron just to keep them to be with me. I have the same problem with other girls to begin relationship. People around me,mostly female friend s say to me to give those girl a chance and start relationship,but I just cant because I dont have emotions. What is wrong with me? Is there any suggestions what should i do? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 6:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Cold-warm emotions VS warm-cold emotions |
I think you should learn to be good with women instead of going from one to the next |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 7:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Cold-warm emotions VS warm-cold emotions |
You're like most.. You don't understand that the way you think about the girl TODAY will influence how you begin to feel about her months down the line. I say this and I will repeat this again and again. . Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, and your habits become your character. What you think today will either make or break your future tomorrow. And this goes for the thoughts that occur both when she is present and the thoughts that occur when she isn't. 99% of us don't have the memory required to understand how often this is actually taking place. Also, keep in mind that the guys GAME is the CHASE, he wants to chase the girl down and ultimately win her over. Now once thats done the guy usually gets lazy, but thats exactly when the girls game begins. The girls game is to subdue him, to get him attached so that she can have security in where she stands in his life. Its tough being with a guy that can just pick up and leave at any moment. She needs investment, she needs TITLES, she needs these things to help secure that the guy isn't just going to leave her once her gets ready. If you win at your game.. completely seducing her, you'll lose interest, she wins at her completely subduing you she will lose interest. It's all about keeping that balance, and taking the relationship ONE DAY at a time. Focus on whats happening today. Handle the emotions of today. She'll introduce Future to you, and you deal with that as it comes. |
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| Author: | 1Optimus1 [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 10:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Cold-warm emotions VS warm-cold emotions |
Wow. Thanks a lot Eddie Fews for this comment. You opened my mind in subjects I didnt think. This was my first post and Im glad that people here explain answer to the little details Thanks again m8 |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 12:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Cold-warm emotions VS warm-cold emotions |
I agree with what's been said. You need to continue having the girl invest or "chase" you in the relationship well beyond the beginning. When you are in a steady relationship you can keep the investment between you two somewhat equal, but it's best to have her invest slightly more than you. There's nothing wrong with you, this is a common problem that many guys fall into because they get complacent and comfortable in the relationship. Continue to qualify her and build compliance so she continues to invest. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 12:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Cold-warm emotions VS warm-cold emotions |
Quote: Wow. Thanks a lot Eddie Fews for this comment. You opened my mind in subjects I didnt think.
Anytime bro.
This was my first post and Im glad that people here explain answer to the little details Thanks again m8 |
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