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Author:  bonin321 [ Sat Apr 18, 2015 1:59 am ]
Post subject:  picking up is feeling like a thief
okay so my aa is now in history but i have a problem
i just notice whenever i see a hb my mind cannot activate to pickup i still need to force it
or decide i cant explain it well i still have to set a mindset to pick up
last night at 12 pm all the side walk vendors were sleeping and their stall were left open
and i said this feeling is familiar its like i can steal but something is stopping me like
i can pick up but i must force my self to. is it because i am insecure? limiting belief? something i dont know

my theory is i care about what people think like stealing its bad
same as picking up people might think im a loser if i fail

HELP!
Author:  Chief [ Mon Apr 20, 2015 5:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: picking up is feeling like a thief
What you're talking about is a very common, deeply ingrained mindset that we've been conditioned to feel.

You don't want to bother anyone. You don't want to take up their time. You don't want to TAKE sex from women without paying for it in some way like through marriage or literal payment.

These mindsets are fundamentally flawed and that's what inner game is all about - fixing these flawed mentalities.

Take the last one I mentioned, for example: you don't want to TAKE sex from women. Sex is something that women GIVE to men. Well, that is bullshit and it's easy to know and understand logically; women enjoy sex, too, and, in fact, evidently enjoy it a hell of a lot more than men do (who makes louder noises of pleasure in bed?).

Even if we are confronted with logic, we still feel that having sex with women is wrong because of years and years of social conditioning. We're pretty much brainwashed into suppressing our sexual selves.

The whole process of shedding all this negative conditioning is a pretty long and time-consuming one, but that's what the pickup community is here for. Try to look at the world from a different perspective ;)
Author:  Zeru [ Mon Apr 20, 2015 6:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: picking up is feeling like a thief
Quote:
What you're talking about is a very common, deeply ingrained mindset that we've been conditioned to feel.

You don't want to bother anyone. You don't want to take up their time. You don't want to TAKE sex from women without paying for it in some way like through marriage or literal payment.

These mindsets are fundamentally flawed and that's what inner game is all about - fixing these flawed mentalities.

Take the last one I mentioned, for example: you don't want to TAKE sex from women. Sex is something that women GIVE to men. Well, that is bullshit and it's easy to know and understand logically; women enjoy sex, too, and, in fact, evidently enjoy it a hell of a lot more than men do (who makes louder noises of pleasure in bed?).

Even if we are confronted with logic, we still feel that having sex with women is wrong because of years and years of social conditioning. We're pretty much brainwashed into suppressing our sexual selves.

The whole process of shedding all this negative conditioning is a pretty long and time-consuming one, but that's what the pickup community is here for. Try to look at the world from a different perspective ;)
That was an interesting perspective, i like that a lot. Thank you Chief.
Author:  bonin321 [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 3:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: picking up is feeling like a thief
thank you that explains why i find it more easier to pick up people who just sits at a park or doing nothing
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