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Author:  tahersyed34 [ Thu Apr 16, 2015 10:44 pm ]
Post subject:  What does it really mean??
So what on earth does a girl who just responds with "LOL" really mean?

I get this alot. I think I am being funny or try to be funny but replies only happen with LOL.

No I know that they really are not laughing, to me it is more like "LOL" means that they are really saying "I SEE" in disguise.

What do I say after they say LOL?

I reply with "I didn't say you could laugh". I might sometimes get a reply after that and sometimes not.

I am not being a jerk by saying that I am just being "funny" or just "playful" she may see it different...

Is that a good idea or bad; what would you do and how would you go around such a situation?
Author:  Kirin [ Fri Apr 17, 2015 12:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it really mean??
One word replies or even one letter (k) usually means her interest level in you is not high enough. There is no point in trying to continue the conversation, find a new girl to talk to and if she re initiates then that's awesome if not, there are plenty more girls to talk to.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 17, 2015 1:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it really mean??
I don't respond..

7 times out of 10 they reinitiate.

More guys are so busy trying to "make something happen" they don't understand the power of doing nothing and waiting for them to do better.

You're trying too hard and helping them do their job by trying to be overly creative to every little thing. Make her work a bit.
Author:  tahersyed34 [ Fri Apr 17, 2015 5:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it really mean??
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One word replies or even one letter (k) usually means her interest level in you is not high enough. There is no point in trying to continue the conversation, find a new girl to talk to and if she re initiates then that's awesome if not, there are plenty more girls to talk to.

Ok I guess with women attraction my stupid philosophy is 'persistence will always win them over'

One story I wanna share is that a girl and I have a great conversation yesterday and to my assumption, she would message me but doesn't at all.....I patiently look at my phone and am like 'text me already' ok ok to be fair I know people get busy sometimes so we don't know what could be going on on their side of the woods, they could have broken their phone, they could have not paid the bill etc. which would explain them not messaging back.

and then desperate as I may sound, I wait all day for them to text me and then I am thinking to myself "if I message her after not hearing from her all day, I will be the one giving in to her attention" which will make me feel desperate; on the otherside of the coin, I get this outlook that "so what if I am messaging her first, at least I am man enough to message her" but it usually drives me crazy to the point where I hyperventilate like literally. I would like to hope that in a perfect world we take turns messaging each other first every day... :|
Author:  tahersyed34 [ Fri Apr 17, 2015 5:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it really mean??
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I don't respond..

7 times out of 10 they reinitiate.

More guys are so busy trying to "make something happen" they don't understand the power of doing nothing and waiting for them to do better.

You're trying too hard and helping them do their job by trying to be overly creative to every little thing. Make her work a bit.

Actually if you have to know, I tried to "make her work a bit" if that is what I actually did or I could be wrong. I don't message them back all day but they dont either......
Author:  R.C [ Fri Apr 17, 2015 7:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it really mean??
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I am not being a jerk by saying that I am just being "funny" or just "playful" she may see it different...
The way she sees it will be contrasted by your personality. If you're a fun loving guy she'll see it playful. If you're the serious type it'll be awkward. Your personality is what you display to her in person.

That's the only constructive thing I can say about this topic, because you're literally asking us what to do when a girl says "lol".
Author:  tahersyed34 [ Fri Apr 17, 2015 7:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it really mean??
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I am not being a jerk by saying that I am just being "funny" or just "playful" she may see it different...
The way she sees it will be contrasted by your personality. If you're a fun loving guy she'll see it playful. If you're the serious type it'll be awkward. Your personality is what you display to her in person.

That's the only constructive thing I can say about this topic, because you're literally asking us what to do when a girl says "lol".

That's the thing, I know the answer is being funny and fun loving but HOW to naturally pull it out of my ass is the real question to play it swift yet smoothly. Its true I would be interested to know how to proceed on what should be done when a girl goes "LOL". I would just playfully remark an answer like "I didnt say you could laugh" which might seem corny but I am not a natural comedian.

Thanks
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 17, 2015 7:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What does it really mean??
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I am not being a jerk by saying that I am just being "funny" or just "playful" she may see it different...
The way she sees it will be contrasted by your personality. If you're a fun loving guy she'll see it playful. If you're the serious type it'll be awkward. Your personality is what you display to her in person.

That's the only constructive thing I can say about this topic, because you're literally asking us what to do when a girl says "lol".

That's the thing, I know the answer is being funny and fun loving but HOW to naturally pull it out of my ass is the real question to play it swift yet smoothly. Its true I would be interested to know how to proceed on what should be done when a girl goes "LOL". I would just playfully remark an answer like "I didnt say you could laugh" which might seem corny but I am not a natural comedian.

Thanks
If its not in you, its something you have to develop. So what you are looking for is currently not even apart of your mental make up, so attempting to be "fun & loving" is not something you could even grasp because you're naturally not fun and loving.

Its like telling a guy who asked how to lift a 500 pound wait to just be strong. If he doesn't have knowledge on how to become strong he won't be able to make use of the advice.

And so, this is something i reiterate and will continue to reiterate time and time again on this forums... Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.

So what a man thinketh he shall become. So you are already on your way to becoming more fun and loving because this desire has fallen upon your heart to come questioning about.

It all starts in your mind. Thats where everything starts. Before a sky scraper is built it must first exist within the mind of the person wanting to build it. They first have a desire to build a sky scraper and then they use their mind to think, speak and then put it into existence.

So becoming loving can start as simply as you saying " I am fun and I am lovable" to yourself mentally 10,000 times a day.

Some people develop more fun and lovingness than others because of how they naturally grew up, others grew up in ways that caused them to develop a different set of skills.

You want to know how? You have to become it. You want to become it? You have to think it.

You exercise your mind around that which you want to be just like you would exercise your physical body. And just like getting a 6 pack takes, time and consistency. Developing a more fun and loving nature if it is not already in you takes time and consistency.

Its the instant age so we all want it NOW, but this is one of those things, ( just like developing a nice body) that is not going to come instantly. You must work at it and think yourself into it each and everyday. After 3-6 months if you come back to this post you'll be able to notice a dramatic difference in your mindset.
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