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Author:  immasquare [ Sat Apr 11, 2015 10:05 pm ]
Post subject:  How to use standing out to your advantage
Does anyone here stand out and if so how to you deal with it. I have dreadlocks and i feel like i stand out like a sore thumb when i go out, recently started to notice this more because I'm trying to solo game. and getting out of my comfort zone and i feel like it shows. Say i walk into a bar everyones looking at me and I'm allow How do you deal with that.

It has it pro and cons. Pro: girls love them Con: people expect me to be different and I'm just a normal guy.

So i guess the questions what do you do when you stand out from the crowd.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Apr 11, 2015 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to use standing out to your advantage
That is actually a good thing. Girls will open you and probably the dudes will follow suit and be like, what up bruh, rasta this.


Enjoy it and embrace, being the focal point of the bar is pretty much where you want to be. I remember going to a bar with my bros and their girlfriends and some of their girlfriends. These girls are 8+ and there were about 4 of them. Holy, we made our own dance party in the bar and everyone was looking. Everyone. I was taking turns dancing with each one, because my buds know I am lil player but know the bro code.

If everyone's looking, just nod up and smile and say how's it going. No one's gonna make fun of you. Do you, focus on the chicks. Maybe make some guy alliances. Works out in the end.
Author:  immasquare [ Sun Apr 12, 2015 12:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to use standing out to your advantage
thats it......girls open me and guys are like whats up and its all fun but i don't know how to respond to a girl opening me. Especially when she with friends, like opening sets of 2. little more work and I'm throw of should i just compliment her and then move it from there. BTW all this is happening really fast so you have to go with the flow or it seems like your done.

I try to focus on everyone but it seems like i can't find cool people to bounce off of or go back and forth and just sarge together because i feel like the see me as inferior and think ill do them more harm then good. like ill take there chances.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sun Apr 12, 2015 1:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to use standing out to your advantage
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thats it......girls open me and guys are like whats up and its all fun but i don't know how to respond to a girl opening me. Especially when she with friends, like opening sets of 2. little more work and I'm throw of should i just compliment her and then move it from there. BTW all this is happening really fast so you have to go with the flow or it seems like your done.

I try to focus on everyone but it seems like i can't find cool people to bounce off of or go back and forth and just sarge together because i feel like the see me as inferior and think ill do them more harm then good. like ill take there chances.
It's cool man. Just go with the flow, less thinking and more talking. When you're in the moment, things go alot smoother rather than being in your head. Take it from myself who suffers from ADHD, I don't think, I act, even if it's reckless lol. That's my curse, but it turns out I have fun either way. Say anything, if the girl compliments you you compliment back if it feels natural to you. You do not have to focus on everyone, you can pick your targets and then float around from there. You have the whole night to focus on everyone. Make sure you make your impression on the people you are talking to at the time.
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