social circle comes easiest with commonalities so go online look for social gathering for a particular niche.. like dodgeball, hiking, or some bs like that.. its easier to make friends when you have similar challenges or task your in on together.
There are different definitions for alpha... some pople like to think of it as too cool for school. or i dont put up with shit because im the boss...
typically alpha is just believing in yourself.. as in you know that you are worth while... if you saw yourself at the club/bar/school/mall you would hang out with your self.
this is where stories and interesting topics come naturally.. if you truly like yourself... the words that come out of your mouth will feel more confident and secure... and people willl listen if the vibe is just that.
you are also understanding of peoples views but have certain standards that if people dont meet. you will address but not be reactive about it.
its like if your name is mike and people around start calling you mike dyke mike dyke..
some people might get emotional and wein about it.. which make the people observing the situation realise that you get emotional under negative feed back.. and they'll remmeber that in the future.. and if it happenes to many times people start to label you.
but true alphas observe the situation and simply say "dont call me that.." in the im not affected by what your saying, but at the same time i have a higher standard for myself than to let you keep saying that, kind of way.
there you go man thats like a short key points kind of post hope it helps.
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