PUA Forum :: When do you tell her you don't want anything serious?

Ideally she can tell from your DEMEANOR (the most important word in "pickup" IMO) from even before the moment you meet her. She KNOWS you're a playboy (if you genuinely give off those vibes in a composed normal manner), and she gets wet because of that fact. Women are not dumb in the slightest. They know what's up and many of them are more than fine with the prospect of getting with a guy who is in demand.

You just can't verbalize your exploits. You infer all of this from your way of being.

Just don't address it. They know. If she asks that means you're spending too much time with her in the first place. It's 2015. They know you're not courting her for marriage. Don't sweat it.

Make the way they feel about sex, the way you feel about entering a relationship and they will chase you down until they get it.

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Make the way they feel about sex, the way you feel about entering a relationship and they will chase you down until they get it.

Sorry, you lost me there. What do you mean?

Thanks everyone for the answers.

A lot of great answers here. You better read them carefully, but I'm going to tell you what I when I REALLY FEEL THE NEED TO TELL.

We're in bed and I'm fingering her hard and while doing this I'll drop the "hey listen, just to be sure, but I don't want anything serious". 99% of the time she'll be like "who the fuck cares, just keep going!!" and the rest 1% she won't even listen to you.
Every time I did this it worked, but I usually never say it. You have to project it when you meet her.

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Dude don't do this..

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Dude don't do this..

I did it, more than once, and it worked.

The point is the projection you give beforehand. If you project non verbally that you don't want anything serious she'll just expect you to say that at some point. There's no need to do it, but if you really feel the NEED to say that, i suggest u to try it out...

Now, For me, I just keep it a little vague "I'm pretty picky and it will take a special girl to prevent me from being single" so I guess this sets up a test for the girl to be that one girl to crown you.

Author:	Silver_Lancer [ Sun Apr 05, 2015 11:32 am ]
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When is it the right time to tell a girl you don't want anything serious? If you say it before you bang her it kinda kills the mood, if you say it after you bang her she will just feel used. How do you guys handle this?

Author:	hugge [ Sun Apr 05, 2015 8:11 pm ]
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IMO it should be clear before you go home with her. If you're honest with her from the very first second you see her this should never be an issue.

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Sun Apr 05, 2015 11:29 pm ]
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You don't say it. You just don't bring anything like that up until she asks about it. Then when she does ask about it... You dodge the subject until she corners you lol make her work for it.

Author:	oceanx [ Mon Apr 06, 2015 4:36 am ]
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Ideally she can tell from your DEMEANOR (the most important word in "pickup" IMO) from even before the moment you meet her. She KNOWS you're a playboy (if you genuinely give off those vibes in a composed normal manner), and she gets wet because of that fact. Women are not dumb in the slightest. They know what's up and many of them are more than fine with the prospect of getting with a guy who is in demand. You just can't verbalize your exploits. You infer all of this from your way of being. Just don't address it. They know. If she asks that means you're spending too much time with her in the first place. It's 2015. They know you're not courting her for marriage. Don't sweat it.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Tue Apr 07, 2015 4:58 pm ]
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Quote: Ideally she can tell from your DEMEANOR (the most important word in "pickup" IMO) from even before the moment you meet her. She KNOWS you're a playboy (if you genuinely give off those vibes in a composed normal manner), and she gets wet because of that fact. Women are not dumb in the slightest. They know what's up and many of them are more than fine with the prospect of getting with a guy who is in demand. You just can't verbalize your exploits. You infer all of this from your way of being. Just don't address it. They know. If she asks that means you're spending too much time with her in the first place. It's 2015. They know you're not courting her for marriage. Don't sweat it. +1 Stating it doesn't change much. I've tried it and if a woman catches feelings, it doesn't matter what you said. All she cares about is the feelings she caught. She knew you weren't serious, she was just hoping she could be the one to change you. Women want the guy thats highly sought out.. They want to be the ONE to get him to settle down. It makes them feel special. That she one night stood every woman except her. And women want to feel like the only ONE - its really the simple secret to seduction. The shit women say to us, is the shit that seduces them if we say it to them under relationship type circumstances. For example: "I don't usually do this.. I've never done this before.. - catch feelings for a girl i slept with. I'm always one and done. Theres something going on with me. I can't. I don't think I can see you. I'm not use to this." Turn her anti slut defense into your anti relationship defense and she's yours. Women tell us how to seduce them.. We just have to pay attention. Make the way they feel about sex, the way you feel about entering a relationship and they will chase you down until they get it.

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Author:	Silver_Lancer [ Tue Apr 07, 2015 5:51 pm ]
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Quote: Make the way they feel about sex, the way you feel about entering a relationship and they will chase you down until they get it. Sorry, you lost me there. What do you mean? Thanks everyone for the answers.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Tue Apr 07, 2015 6:05 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Make the way they feel about sex, the way you feel about entering a relationship and they will chase you down until they get it. Sorry, you lost me there. What do you mean? Thanks everyone for the answers. How do women behave when you're trying to sleep with them? Like there pussy is a prize. But its NOT every woman has a pussy. Theres nothing special about it. But still they treat it as such and so you respond to their frame by working for it as if its some reward. But the superior mentality and frame is the one I stated.. It ain't no prize. MY TIME is the prize. And I'm giving it to you for free. How dare you treat sex as if its near the value that my time is. ^ Thats the mentality that creates the frame that makes women a lot more open to you sexually. You're either being influenced by their frame or they'll be influenced by yours. You're leading them or they're leading you. Its all in who's frame is the more dominate one. If your my time is important frame more dominate and deep rooted in actual belief than her " My pussy is a prize" frame. If its not you will work for her instead of her working for you. So now if you simply hanging out with a girl and giving her your time is a prize, imagine what entering a relationship with her is? That shit is a like you wrapping the galaxy in gift wrap and giving it to her. Treat your time like the prize and root yourself in that frame and they will work for it - so long as your belief in it is strong enough.

Author:	CESARE [ Wed Apr 08, 2015 8:55 am ]
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A lot of great answers here. You better read them carefully, but I'm going to tell you what I when I REALLY FEEL THE NEED TO TELL. We're in bed and I'm fingering her hard and while doing this I'll drop the "hey listen, just to be sure, but I don't want anything serious". 99% of the time she'll be like "who the fuck cares, just keep going!!" and the rest 1% she won't even listen to you. Every time I did this it worked, but I usually never say it. You have to project it when you meet her.

Author:	R.C [ Wed Apr 08, 2015 9:23 am ]
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Quote: A lot of great answers here. You better read them carefully, but I'm going to tell you what I when I REALLY FEEL THE NEED TO TELL. We're in bed and I'm fingering her hard and while doing this I'll drop the "hey listen, just to be sure, but I don't want anything serious". 99% of the time she'll be like "who the fuck cares, just keep going!!" and the rest 1% she won't even listen to you. Every time I did this it worked, but I usually never say it. You have to project it when you meet her. Dude don't do this..

Author:	CESARE [ Wed Apr 08, 2015 10:27 am ]
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Quote: Quote: A lot of great answers here. You better read them carefully, but I'm going to tell you what I when I REALLY FEEL THE NEED TO TELL. We're in bed and I'm fingering her hard and while doing this I'll drop the "hey listen, just to be sure, but I don't want anything serious". 99% of the time she'll be like "who the fuck cares, just keep going!!" and the rest 1% she won't even listen to you. Every time I did this it worked, but I usually never say it. You have to project it when you meet her. Dude don't do this.. I did it, more than once, and it worked. The point is the projection you give beforehand. If you project non verbally that you don't want anything serious she'll just expect you to say that at some point. There's no need to do it, but if you really feel the NEED to say that, i suggest u to try it out...

Author:	R.C [ Wed Apr 08, 2015 10:47 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: A lot of great answers here. You better read them carefully, but I'm going to tell you what I when I REALLY FEEL THE NEED TO TELL. We're in bed and I'm fingering her hard and while doing this I'll drop the "hey listen, just to be sure, but I don't want anything serious". 99% of the time she'll be like "who the fuck cares, just keep going!!" and the rest 1% she won't even listen to you. Every time I did this it worked, but I usually never say it. You have to project it when you meet her. Dude don't do this.. I did it, more than once, and it worked. The point is the projection you give beforehand. If you project non verbally that you don't want anything serious she'll just expect you to say that at some point. There's no need to do it, but if you really feel the NEED to say that, i suggest u to try it out... I didn't say it doesn't work. I implied it's a fucked up thing to do. @OP: do what oceanx said.

Author:	Dragula [ Wed Apr 08, 2015 12:02 pm ]
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I used to tell girls before I seduce, it cost me a lot of girls. Even some girls got angry with me for it and it pissed me off that I received more drama by being honest and was just not getting rewarded for it. "Omg don't you think it's time to settle down?" Now, For me, I just keep it a little vague "I'm pretty picky and it will take a special girl to prevent me from being single" so I guess this sets up a test for the girl to be that one girl to crown you. However. When I'm vacation, I tell them at the start that my time there is short and if they still accept my frame I just push it for the SNL. I used to do what CESARE does too, it worked but I changed it up because I still got the big question before I get them in the bedroom

Author:	R.C [ Wed Apr 08, 2015 12:43 pm ]
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Quote: Now, For me, I just keep it a little vague "I'm pretty picky and it will take a special girl to prevent me from being single" so I guess this sets up a test for the girl to be that one girl to crown you. This is my way of doing things too.

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