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Author:  R.C [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 4:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Difference between onitis and the real thing? Which is it?
So I've been seeing a coworker for a few weeks.

She's what you would call a quality woman. I'm really tired of meeting beautiful but dull women, rolling my eyes once every 3 words they say. And I've been getting that a lot lately. This one though has more going for herself other than her looks. I genuinely enjoy her company. Maybe a bit too much.
I had a day off today. My roommates are at work, friends are at work, she's at work, etc. I pretty much got the afternoon to kill and couldn't shake her out of my head. It's not the first time this happens either.
Since we're not officially exclusive, I though that maybe I should call a sidegirl over just for the hell of it and see what happens. She just left a couple of minutes ago with a huge look of disappointment on her face. You should've seen it, I swear she was thinking I suddenly turned gay. I was trying really hard not to laugh. Had more sexual interactions when I was 13. She stayed a little over 2 hours. The highlight of it all was her head on my shoulder while watching a youtube video. Intense stuff, I know.

I think I'm falling hard for the coworker, but I need an objective perspective on this because I don't entirely trust myself at the moment.

Even as I'm writing this I have a retarded smile on my face thinking of her. I'm so fucked.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 5:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Difference between onitis and the real thing? Which is i
Lol

Oneitis is like little droplets of urine little by little being dropped into a fresh bucket of water. The first 50 drops go unnoticed. The water is drinkable, and anyone who didn't see the drops of urine go into the water could drink the water and wouldn't taste or see a thing. But after about 300 of the little drops, you begin to have a problem. Now its noticeable, tastable, and gets thrown away. Sometimes it'll rain and further dilute the bucket, but usually, we'll end up needing to get another bucket of water.

Although its impossible, I do my best to keep even one droplet of urine from getting in my fresh water. Some will slip by of course, but I catch as many as I can.

You may be at about 150 droplets.. Potentially more and it happens to the best of us.

In the beginning its cool, its like " What is this yellow liquid.. Its so fascinating, the water used to be clear. Lemonade perhaps? But after a while - once you get a litter closer and take a whiff its like "This is urine!"
Author:  R.C [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 5:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Difference between onitis and the real thing? Which is i
Lol, nice analogy.


But isn't that bucket something you want and usually can't / don't have?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Difference between onitis and the real thing? Which is i
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Lol, nice analogy.


But isn't that bucket something you want and usually can't / don't have?

I read something that said " Men have to sacrifice the pursuit of love for the pursuit of purpose to ultimately be happy. And women have to sacrifice the pursuit of purpose for the pursuit of love to ultimately be happy "

We each have the urge to pursue both, but the way to our happiness lies within the pursuit of opposite things according to the author.

I've found this to be true within my own life. Catching oneitis is awesome at first, but in all reality it is only women who are able to remain happy while experiencing oneitis. We have to resist oneitis to be happy, and they have to give in to their oneitis to be happy. The lines are becoming blurred, especially today, but I like to believe that human nature is still in tact despite what society is doing. Women now are fighting the urge to fall in love - afraid to fall, and men can't wait to fall in love. We're always looking for the one we could fall in love with. Thats what I notice today.

Men are detachers by nature, we detach from our home and our family to go hunt.. Women are attachers by nature, they attach to the home, the child in their womb, and the family.

Opposite attract. Thats just nature.

Men are better suited to handle to not catching oneitis, and women are better suited to catch oneitis. My longest relationships and happiest relationships were always the ones in which I kept my emotions in check and never stopped pursuing my purpose. The shortest or unhappiest were always the ones in which I got too stuck and found thoughts of the girl more important that where i was going with my life.
Author:  R.C [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 5:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Difference between onitis and the real thing? Which is i
Quote:
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Lol, nice analogy.


But isn't that bucket something you want and usually can't / don't have?

I read something that said " Men have to sacrifice the pursuit of love for the pursuit of purpose to ultimately be happy. And women have to sacrifice the pursuit of purpose for the pursuit of love to ultimately be happy "

We each have the urge to pursue both, but the way to our happiness lies within the pursuit of opposite things according to the author.

I've found this to be true within my own life. Catching oneitis is awesome at first, but in all reality it is only women who are able to remain happy while experiencing oneitis. We have to resist oneitis to be happy, and they have to give in to their oneitis to be happy. The lines are becoming blurred, especially today, but I like to believe that human nature is still in tact despite what society is doing. Women now are fighting the urge to fall in love - afraid to fall, and men can't wait to fall in love. We're always looking for the one we could fall in love with. Thats what I notice today.

Men are detachers by nature, we detach from our home and our family to go hunt.. Women are attachers by nature, they attach to the home, the child in their womb, and the family.

Opposite attract. Thats just nature.

Men are better suited to handle to not catching oneitis, and women are better suited to catch oneitis. My longest relationships and happiest relationships were always the ones in which I kept my emotions in check and never stopped pursuing my purpose. The shortest or unhappiest were always the ones in which I got too stuck and found thoughts of the girl more important that where i was going with my life.
Thank you for this.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 5:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Difference between onitis and the real thing? Which is i
When you want but want but don't need her in your journey in life.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 5:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Difference between onitis and the real thing? Which is i
Quote:
Quote:
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Lol, nice analogy.


But isn't that bucket something you want and usually can't / don't have?

I read something that said " Men have to sacrifice the pursuit of love for the pursuit of purpose to ultimately be happy. And women have to sacrifice the pursuit of purpose for the pursuit of love to ultimately be happy "

We each have the urge to pursue both, but the way to our happiness lies within the pursuit of opposite things according to the author.

I've found this to be true within my own life. Catching oneitis is awesome at first, but in all reality it is only women who are able to remain happy while experiencing oneitis. We have to resist oneitis to be happy, and they have to give in to their oneitis to be happy. The lines are becoming blurred, especially today, but I like to believe that human nature is still in tact despite what society is doing. Women now are fighting the urge to fall in love - afraid to fall, and men can't wait to fall in love. We're always looking for the one we could fall in love with. Thats what I notice today.

Men are detachers by nature, we detach from our home and our family to go hunt.. Women are attachers by nature, they attach to the home, the child in their womb, and the family.

Opposite attract. Thats just nature.

Men are better suited to handle to not catching oneitis, and women are better suited to catch oneitis. My longest relationships and happiest relationships were always the ones in which I kept my emotions in check and never stopped pursuing my purpose. The shortest or unhappiest were always the ones in which I got too stuck and found thoughts of the girl more important that where i was going with my life.
Thank you for this.
I wish I could send a heart lol.

No doubt bro.
Author:  Versalis [ Sat Apr 04, 2015 4:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Difference between onitis and the real thing? Which is i
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Although its impossible, I do my best to keep even one droplet of urine from getting in my fresh water. Some will slip by of course, but I catch as many as I can.

You may be at about 150 droplets.. Potentially more and it happens to the best of us.

In the beginning its cool, its like " What is this yellow liquid.. Its so fascinating, the water used to be clear. Lemonade perhaps? But after a while - once you get a litter closer and take a whiff its like "This is urine!"
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