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| Author: | bartm [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 2:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | why do I only see the negative? |
why do I always see only the negative? how come I never remember the positive? For example, let's say I approach 10 girls. 9 give me their number, 1 doesn't. I don't see the 9 that were nice. I will focus on the 1 that was a bitch. I am not sure if this is the same issue or another issue but I also interpret everything against me. For example, if a girl looks at me and looks away, I will believe that's because she doesn't like me. I know a guy who is the opposite. He interprets everything in his own favor: the girl looked away because she was attracted to him. how can I start seeing the positive only and start ignoring the negative? |
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| Author: | DavidLee [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 12:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why do I only see the negative? |
Heyy!!! Instead of directly flirting or going crazy with her, try to make friendship. then you will ultimately see the positive impacts. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 03, 2015 2:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why do I only see the negative? |
I interpret everything as my favorite which is why i don't see that one girl as a negative. I see it as one aspect of myself that I need to improve. I'm personally trying to be "Perfect" and i'm just not quite there yet, but I work toward it everyday. Sounds like you just need a perspective switch.. They aren't negatives, they are just reminders that you want to become better than you are. Because if you were someone that was just content with the 9 numbers and 1 rejection, what would be left to propel you into trying harder? Wanting more? You want more.. I think thats a good drive to have. You only need change the way you see your drive. |
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