Alright, so I'm new here and found this section of the forum. Don't know if it's the right section to post this but would appreciate some advice/feedback from you guys. A while ago I was on Tinder swiping left and right (trying to replace a chick who got me a bit depressed.) Suddenly, I get this message from a chick who I forgot I got matched with. It was random and she was like "Hey I want to meet you and I'm going to delete my profile." (Not a bot) So I tell her to add me on Instagram. A few days roll by and I hit her up through DM. So fastward to our convo, she said she wanted to meet me because I reminded her of some dude she used to like or some bs. After agreeing to meet she was like I'll let you know the time. Friday comes along (meet up day) and she hadn't replied so I caved in and hit her up asking if we'd meet up. She agrees but says she has to do something after.
Originally she wanted to go to the park but we ended up going to a small tea shop. Everything is cool and I was kind of analyzing how she looked a bit different than her profile (not in a bad way but she seemed a bit more mature/older online.) So we spent like 2 hours talking/flirting and whatnot. She was really cool and was somewhat of the type of chick I was looking for (artsy). Anyways, I go up to pay and she's like she'll pay half and I'm like no (apparently she believes in equals) so I pay regardless. We meet her friends outside and when she sees her male friend she rubs up on his face and calls him "baby". I got the impression that he was gay but I wasn't too sure. So her friends start talking and she gives me this funny cheeky smiled look and I just half smiled. I knew they were all heading somewhere (I think it was to a concert) so just as they're waiting she asks me if I would like to tag along and I said some along the lines of I was tired. I declined due to 1. Her family was going to be there 2.She said was going to introduce me as a friend... I then told her I had to leave and proceed to kiss her, she stops me and says "we're just friends."
Sh*t was really awkward but why not? So shook her friend's hands and left. I then messaged her and told her it was nice seeing her, she replies a day later and says the same and points out how awkward it was when I tried to kiss her. I then ask her if it was disrespectful (since she's not from the U.S) and she says no, that she got the vibe
that I liked her and then sent me a heart emoji. I didn't hit her up for about 4 days and then said cool. I then try to follow up with another date. She says sure and agrees. The day comes along and I had to hit her up again and she says something along the lines of her family members are coming over and she couldn't. She replies then with I'll let you know (my gut told me it was a nice way to say f*ck off). I then said have a good day, no reply. Between that time period, I don't communicate with her (I have this rule that I don't like to hit up women more than twice if I get no reply or w.e) but she likes all my Instagram posts. I stopped going on Tinder the whole entire time this took place cause last time I was with a chick it caused problems. *Time rolls by* No communication... Oh, and she uploaded a picture of some dude so i got a bit curious.I checked Tinder and lo and behold she was active a couple hours ago. *I get upset and then start talk to more Tinder chicks, planned a date with 2 other chicks *Girl A (hb7.5)- I had been talking to for a while and arranged a date... Girl B (Hb8)- had a date arranged and she couldn't make it due to transportation/weather* So I ended up going on a date with girl A and kissed. So now, do I tell the first chick I met (the main one) that I don't want to see her? Ignore her? I kind of want to upload a pic with girl A and to show her that I have options. Or should I wait it out? What do you guys suggest if you were in my shoes? Also, I have girl B on Instagram so putting up a pic of this new girl might hurt my chances with her. My apologies if this was a long read too...