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| Author: | thequietlife [ Thu Apr 02, 2015 2:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How do you deal with low abundance ? |
Any tips for guys with not much abundance and dealings with that mindset. Sometimes I feel like I should game any girl that show interest just because of low abundance even though I'm not attracted to them, I some times view it as practice but I'm not sure if that's a good way to go about things. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Apr 02, 2015 2:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you deal with low abundance ? |
You don't have to game everyone... But how about flirting with everyone? Hot girls, ugly girls, old ladies, clowns, circus carnies, etc... It's the right mindset to be in - stay social, flirty, upbeat and fun and you give off good vibes... when someone who does interest you comes along you've both had some practice, and you're already in the swing of things. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Thu Apr 02, 2015 2:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you deal with low abundance ? |
Abundance is not really all that important. It's really more about going for what you want, instead of playing it safe. If you have abundance, the idea is that you'd go for it. But not necessarily true. It's fine to talk to women you're not attracted to. You talk to men, too, right? |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Thu Apr 02, 2015 3:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you deal with low abundance ? |
Quote: Any tips for guys with not much abundance and dealings with that mindset.
Sometimes I feel like I should game any girl that show interest just because of low abundance even though I'm not attracted to them, I some times view it as practice but I'm not sure if that's a good way to go about things. Abundance comes later. Trust me, once you get the one girl...it is easier to get another...even better, you get two girls, you can two more, and so on. Just keep reading up on material...learning to be comfortable with yourself, PUSHING yourself a little every day and you will come to reap the rewards from doing so. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Apr 02, 2015 5:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you deal with low abundance ? |
The point of abundance is quite simple. You'll have no problem spending the 20$ in your wallet knowing you have another 1000$ on your card, correct? On the other hand, if 20$ is all you got, you'll be much more reticent to go for what you like. The same applies with women. Abundance makes it easier to approach & have that low investment simply because you have a safety net of sorts. It's not do or die. So what if Sophie blows you off? Ashley is getting wet each time her phone lights up hoping it's a text from you. That in turn makes you less needy, which is attractive. You can achieve the same result with low abundance, it's just a bit more difficult since it may not come as natural at first. The point is to be a man and act on your desires. Anyway, enough about that. I think Charles suggested something extremely important. I can't stress it enough myself. Don't game everyone. Flirt with everyone. Be that fun loving guy that makes everyone smile with his presence alone. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Thu Apr 02, 2015 5:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you deal with low abundance ? |
The thing with abundance is just to feel satisfied. You can break it down to not being needy, being outcome independent and not treating a hot girl any different than anyone else. That's all, I think. Abundance just helps you to get there. |
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