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Author:  thequietlife [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 9:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Conversations about sex.

OK I have this slight problem. I'm not sure if anyone else has experienced this and how you can potentially get over it. When I'm talking to girls I've been "intimate" with, in the past and will potentially be in the future, it puts me off when they talk about other sexual partners, It turns my stomach. I logically think I know this girl has been with more people besides me, which is fine. It's just when I actually hear what they do it turns my stomach, It's weird. I have this thing where I pretend she hasn't actually been with anyone, while logically I know she has. I know that might sound confusing.

I first thought is it the lack of sexual experiences I've had(I'm not a virgin)But even when i'm talking to my friends female/male and they go into detail I just kind of don't want to hear it, but when I'm talking to a girl 1 on 1 I can be the dirtiest bastard ever. (also i don't enjoy disclosing what i do in the bedroom really either)

I can't work out if my attitudes towards sex are caused by hidden insecurity,lack of abundance,some sort weird homophobia,envy or whether that's just me as a person.

Author:  JayJay90 [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 10:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conversations about sex.

Dude, that's not a problem, I think you'll find it's pretty normal. No guys want to hear who's been sampling the goods before you got there.

Why are you even talking to them about it? If they bring it up just tell them you don't want to know - you can guarantee they don't want to either.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 11:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conversations about sex.

Normal

There are spiritual reasons for this that I won't get into here, but you're free to PM me and i'll let you know what i've been taught.

Eventually you will become numb to it though.. Its up to you whether you consider that to be a good thing or a bad thing.

Author:  R.C [ Wed Apr 01, 2015 11:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Conversations about sex.

It's a result of some core insecurities. At least for me it was.

Nowadays I really don't mind her sexual history.

Author:  thequietlife [ Wed Apr 01, 2015 1:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conversations about sex.

It's a current person she's fucking. I know it sounds childish. I'm not sure if everyone remembers that science from scary movie......"my germs". Even about sharing glasses and cutlery at pubs/restaurants, toilets etc. Just a bit ocd about other people touching things lol.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Wed Apr 01, 2015 3:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Conversations about sex.

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It's a current person she's fucking. I know it sounds childish. I'm not sure if everyone remembers that science from scary movie......"my germs". Even about sharing glasses and cutlery at pubs/restaurants, toilets etc. Just a bit ocd about other people touching things lol.

Drill this into your head. Ready? Every girl you are fucking..has been fucked and will be fucked after you are done with them. The end. Welcome to humanity.

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