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| Author: | Dick The Hippy [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 10:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Trouble closing with my ex-girlfriend. |
Background: We dated for about 2 months three years ago (ended because I was a socially anxious AFC, also didn't get further than lip kisses, I've fucked 2 other women since). We stayed friends and she recently broke up with her ex-bf of nearly 2 years and she called me up to come party with her and her best friends who also lives on campus. We all met up, and drank more fireball (they showed up a little buzzed). She instantly kept wanting to give me hugs, we play-wrestled a few times and I walked by her to sit down on the couch and I didn't directly look at her, but I smiled and followed her eyes (she was giving me the eyes and smile that said "I want to fuck you" and her eyes followed me until I sat down. We all left, went for a walk, neg, neg, neg the group, neg the other girls, kino'd her, grinded on her friend. We finally get back to her friend's room, she instantly jumps in bed with me and I start to cuddle with her (with no hesitation she grabbed me and squeezed me tightly), as her friends went to sleep I asked her "Do you want to kiss me?", looking into her eyes and smiling, she didn't respond, she just smiled at me and kept staring, so I kissed her after ~10 seconds and we started making out. I went into neck, lip biting, all that good shit. I finally brought her into the other room(she grabbed a condom out of her purse on the way out). I squeezed her ass and started making out with her, I carried her onto the futon and we make out some more, and she rips my shirt off. I take hers off after we kiss some more. She gets up and she's on her knees while I'm sitting on the futon and I'm taking off her bra, played with and sucked on the titties, she pushes me back into the futon and starts to undo my pants and here comes the ASD, "we've known each other for 4 years", "we're drunk", "Will this change things between us?". I couldn't get past her ASD, so she told me "To Be continued... maybe, but probably". We went back to bed, I finger the fuck out of her and rubbed her clit, and we cuddled to sleep. We've talked about it since, it's not awkward at all. She says she's still not 100% sure about hooking up, and she's just looking for reliable friends. What should my next course of action be to eventually close the deal and become a FWB. Tl;dr Ex-girlfriend drunk, neggedcity, kino, "Do you wanna kiss me"?, ASD stopped when she was about to undo my pants half-naked, fingered the fuck out of her in bed, went to sleep. "To be continued... maybe, but probably" What should I do next to close? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 11:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trouble closing with my ex-girlfriend. |
Meet up with her again and tell her what you want. |
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| Author: | WAY2KNOWZY [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 11:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trouble closing with my ex-girlfriend. |
Honestly I would be honest. I am a little tipsy right now but my uncle always said to do what will make you happy at the end of the day. These women do not really care they just want approval and reassurance that they are still attractive. |
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| Author: | Dick The Hippy [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 2:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trouble closing with my ex-girlfriend. |
Hmm... honesty is the best policy I suppose. Thanks guys. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 11:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trouble closing with my ex-girlfriend. |
Quote: Hmm... honesty is the best policy I suppose. Thanks guys.
Fingering could of easily turned into a lay.. I don't think this is even qualified for a post.. I think you're fine.. Whens the last time there was contact? |
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| Author: | Dick The Hippy [ Wed Apr 01, 2015 12:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Trouble closing with my ex-girlfriend. |
Quote: Quote: Hmm... honesty is the best policy I suppose. Thanks guys.
Fingering could of easily turned into a lay.. I don't think this is even qualified for a post.. I think you're fine.. Whens the last time there was contact? But you're right, I could've turned the situation around once I started fingering her, I was just too much of a dumbass (and pretty crossfaded) to figure out how. I'll be completely sober this time, and if I can't close then I'll be ashamed of myself. Anyways, I think my problem was that I didn't comfort her enough about the situation and I skipped a lot of the foreplay like an AFC. |
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