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| Author: | Moose185 [ Sun Mar 29, 2015 12:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | how to be more physical |
I've been on 8 dates with this girl. All dates have been really good. We get on really well. I asked her in the last date if she liked me more than a friend and she said she did. The problem is were not very physical we kiss at the end of dates but other than that we don't hold hands and are not the most touchy feely. She told me she is very shy and reserved so that's why she isn't very physical with me. I'm also quite shy and find it hard to make a move. This is probably my lack of experience with having a girlfriend. Can anyone provide any advice? how do I get more comfortable with her? |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Sun Mar 29, 2015 12:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to be more physical |
You need to be escalating earlier and more often in the interaction. It should feel normal for both of you to touch each other. Develop escalation by rewarding her investment with your touch. If she tells you something deep about her, show empathy and hug or kiss her. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Mar 29, 2015 1:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to be more physical |
Keep it simple . In the beginning you can even do high fives, thumb wars, handshakes, touch on the arm, shoulder, elbows and then once you feel more comfortable you can do the lower back. Etc. |
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| Author: | Moose185 [ Sun Mar 29, 2015 8:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to be more physical |
thanks i'll give it a try, usually thing's only get physical for me once I go to a girl's house. I'm not one for public displays of affection are not my thing. I do like this girl just not sure where it's going. it doesn't help that were both shy. |
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