It sounds like she is not what you are looking for so why the fuck even bother?

Really? Wouldn't have asked for advice if I didn't want to continue seeing her. I'd actually prefer to continue seeing her than the other women I've met recently. Do you think she might have wanted something serious and I didn't pursue her enough?

Too me it just sound like you're playing one too many games and not just clearly communicating what you want and why you want it.

Your english was a bit difficult to interpret, but if you want the girl, pick up the phone, call her and let her know. If she responds negatively, but your losses and move on with your life.

Ideally I'd like to continue seeing her, she is much more attractive than anyone else I've met recently. I didn't intend on playing games I originally stopped pursuing her because I felt that the first couple of times we met I was behaving too much like an AFC and she wouldn't be interested in seeing me again but this wasn't the case.
Sorry, it wasn't the best written post. I was just trying to include plenty of detail so maybe someone could figure out why she was so hot and cold. I thought maybe she was testing me to see how interested I am?

We don't really speak on the phone, unless it's something urgent or important not many people my age do. I'm thinking about messaging her but what‘s the best course of action for the ignored text? It’s the second time now she’s ignored a text and stopped responding randomly in the middle of the convo. How is that best dealt with? Do I carry on like normal again and show that I’m not affected and basically don't even remember being ignored so I don’t look needy and too affected by her behavior? I’m in two minds. On one hand, mentioning it makes me sound too needy; but on the other hand, carrying on without ever mentioning it (A) makes me seem like a doormat (B) yields no info as to why it happened.

Pardon me, if you want a chick that blows you off, flakes on you, and fucks other dudes, hey I'm cool

But like Eddie says, it's not very clear what you want.

I would just keep her as a FWB til you sort yourself out.

It seem you want her when she's unavailable. That's how she should feel about YOU.

If you keep hanging out with the guy that smacks you every time he sees you he will naturally assume that you like getting smacked.

I know you don't usually make phone calls - one of the reasons you're asking for this kind of advice, but its all you have. All you have is one phone call, or one video chat to fully express yourself. Chasing up behind ignored text and ain't the way to go. You're implying that she gets rewarded with more attention for ignoring you.

I'd suggest moving on, because no girl that i've come across yet is worth this much trouble, and from what you've already stated about her she DEFINITELY isn't. But if you must try something, make the phone call.

But why do they smack you? Maybe there's a reason. Is there a way to stop them from smacking you and continue hanging out? Should I ask her what happened? You said 'if you want the girl, pick up the phone, call her and let her know.' How should I let her know?

I've seen this advice on here a bit and I don't agree it's always the best option. There's nothing wrong with messages and I think it's actually better in some ways. Phone calls require more time and effort which doesn't fit the whole 'alpha, pua abundance mentality' thing. A guy with lots of options wouldn't have time to call all of them. I think unnecessarily calling women is a DLV. I prefer messages and think phone calls can be a bit needy and creepy, especially after you've been ignored and when that person prefers messages and you've rarely called in the past. They would just find it weird. Calling might work in some situations but I don't feel like it would here.

Well you know what bro?

I call women every single day.. And you know what? I never run into issues like the issue you are running into now. So you do want to listen to me? Or your own rationale which has led you to asking for help on a forum about some girl who is more than likely a waste of time?

I'll never under guys arguing with guys who have what they want while the guy is telling them how to get it.

A text message doesn't have a voice tone. A masculine voice makes women emotional and horny. I have gotten several f-closes this way.

Eddie gave you advice because it works (at least for him and several other guys like me).

You only have three choices here:

1. Follow Eddie's advice that works for a bunch of guys.

2. Follow your own which clearly isn't working for you.

3. Follow Heywood's advice which works even better.

You haven't called her yet so you really don't know how she'll react to your voice. You're a guy who's still a virgin so you really don't know what type of masculine voice makes women horny.

Unless you try, you'll never know if Eddie's advice will work for you. There's really nothing to lose by calling her. I'm wondering what you're so afraid of.