But i want you to stick around because in the future I surely will.

I thought you were the guy who wanted multiple LTRs? Or am I confusing you with someone else?

Apologies if so...

If not, though... That's maybe something she'd need to know as well - since she obviously seems possessive, in that respect.

You have to play with the same rules. If you can see other girls, she can see others guys too. Personally I prefer to be exclusive with a girl, until I lose interest. It's not very efficient if you enjoy promiscuity, but everyone likes different things.

"Well my stipulation is for you to stop talking to other girls...that is my ultimatum, I guess talk to me when you change your mind".

If this happened through text, the next time a girl says something like this just do not respond. She'll contact you again in 24 hours or less.

It happened on the phone but I saw it coming. She texted me before saying she wanted to talk to me...about stuff.

I couldn't really run away from it anymore. She kept bringing it up even when we hung out even when I was playing it off or trying to change the subject. She's persistent.

I understand. I also took the call because I have to practice stating these things. I also have to practice the whole be willing to walk away thing, even though I did like her. So overall, I think this is good for me. I think she will contact me, when she does, she will like me even more for sticking to my guns.

The problem I have is that I am running into more girls that "aren't about that life" or girls who are trying to be the one and only and change me. I think I got to hit up bars and clubs exclusively it seems.

I am going through something similar.

This girl I have been seeing for nearly 2 years, she knows that she won't make a boyfriend out of me. I continue to see other girls in between and she will give me shit every time she finds a hair clip, piece of glitter, blonde hair in my bed.

She has dumped me about 7 times now and each time I stick to my guns and I don't break.

2/3 days I will always get the ' I miss you ' text.

I fuck her sooo good that can't commit to dumping me because she ain't gonna find a guy like me in a long time.

I feel like a cunt sometimes, but at the end of the day I was honest from day 1 about being Poly and I do enjoy her company and I devote all my attention to her when I with her.

When a girl gives you shit like this, i think you show integrity and stick to your guns no matter what, you have to hold the line like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1NupxasQWs

When she gives in, the sex is angry and rough and they love to be degraded for being a pain in the ass. They love it.

I could get rid but I don'y see any point in making both sides unhappy, she is free to hook up with guys but she doesn't want to.

Holy moly. 2 years? I don't think I would go that long but yeah sounds like my situation. Good to see someone else is in a similar situation. Are you ever settling down?