PUA Forum
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

Is this the friend zone?
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=189083		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  oxyclean321 [ Mon Mar 23, 2015 4:07 am ]
Post subject:  Is this the friend zone?
i met this girl a few months ago, we started to hang out but never had sex. after awhile of her wanting to take things slow as she's only ever had 2 partners i didn't think much of it, gradually we drifted apart. recently i texted her again and she was very receptive. she told me in our first conversation that she was back with her ex however i just ignored it and she never brought it up again. its been about 3 weeks and ive asked her to meet twice and she's made up dumb excuses both times. i feel that if i tried to convince her to hang out i could do it however i feel that would make me look needy. she's usually (80% of the time) texting me first and more engaged in the conversation than i am.

A:i can force the meet up- if she rejects hard i stop talking to her for a few months and reopen in june.
B:play "im to busy for you" - act uninterested and distant for a few weeks then try again.
C: ?

what would you do?

thanks
Author:  oceanx [ Mon Mar 23, 2015 5:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this the friend zone?
Move on to other girls. Forget about this one for a while. She may reconnect; if not, reconnect in a few weeks IF YOU STILL REMEMBER HER DUE TO ALL THE OTHER NEW WOMEN YOU'RE MEETING.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Mar 23, 2015 5:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this the friend zone?
You've got to be kidding bro.

You're planning to reopen some girl after a couple months? Do you live in a small town and do you not have access to tinder, okcupid, pof? I'm not the biggest fan of online dating but it damn sure makes finding another girl as easy as the swipe of a finger.

No way i'm giving advice on this. Move on and never speak to her again. Simple. Whats the point? You want more than she can give you. You can't go into business with someone who doesn't have the resources for the type of business you want to open. Well you can, but it would be foolish. Carry on bro. Like none this ever happened.
Author:  oxyclean321 [ Mon Mar 23, 2015 6:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this the friend zone?
Quote:
She may reconnect
she will, she texts me first most of the time.
my question is how to act.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Mar 23, 2015 10:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this the friend zone?
Quote:
Quote:
She may reconnect
she will, she texts me first most of the time.
my question is how to act.
The perspective I gave you is what will win her over if you would just open your eyes and adopt it. How would a guy who posses the attitude I showed you above act when contacted by this girl? Thats how you want to act. But once again.. It is a complete waste of time.
Author:  oceanx [ Mon Mar 23, 2015 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this the friend zone?
Quote:
Quote:
She may reconnect
she will, she texts me first most of the time.
my question is how to act.
Simply have her work for your attention. By the time she reconnects, you had better be busy with the other women, to such an extent that you won't really care where the interaction with this one goes; not doing this will end up right back where you are now. Basically you're going to need to do a complete reframe of yourself to her which will require quite a bit of work, and still might not be effective as initial impressions stick and you had a lengthy initial impression.
Author:  oxyclean321 [ Tue Mar 24, 2015 2:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this the friend zone?
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
She may reconnect
she will, she texts me first most of the time.
my question is how to act.
Simply have her work for your attention. By the time she reconnects, you had better be busy with the other women, to such an extent that you won't really care where the interaction with this one goes; not doing this will end up right back where you are now. Basically you're going to need to do a complete reframe of yourself to her which will require quite a bit of work, and still might not be effective as initial impressions stick and you had a lengthy initial impression.
how would i make her work for my attention. lets say she texts me this week, which vide/emotion do i put off?
Author:  oxyclean321 [ Tue Mar 24, 2015 2:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this the friend zone?
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
She may reconnect
she will, she texts me first most of the time.
my question is how to act.
The perspective I gave you is what will win her over if you would just open your eyes and adopt it. How would a guy who posses the attitude I showed you above act when contacted by this girl? Thats how you want to act. But once again.. It is a complete waste of time.
how would never talking to her again "win her over"? im not addicted to this girl, i have others in my life. im just wondering how i should play this. ignoring her future texts and just never reopening again i doubt will get me anywhere with her.
Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/