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Author:  Steve8989 [ Wed Mar 18, 2015 11:21 am ]
Post subject:  When to stop "gaming" ?
Might seem like a bit of an odd question/topic but something I've run into recently.

So.. I met a girl, she was seeing someone else at the time, gamed her over the last 3-4 months
or so, we met about 5 times (escalating on each occasion) and she has stopped contact with the other guy a month ago and now she wants to get serious with me...

Now, do I continue with the games and all that comes with it or is there a point where you just need
to relax and kind of just be yourself so to speak? Obviously I am myself anyway around her, but you get what I mean. I guess it is different depending on intentions and at the moment it is my intention to see where it goes and continue with this girl.

I just worry if I stop then she may become bored etc.

Haven't been in a relationship for a few years (before I knew about the PUA stuff) so a bit out of date on the dynamics of it all & relationships in general.
Author:  R.C [ Wed Mar 18, 2015 1:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When to stop "gaming" ?
Game is not a mask you wear on occasion. Apart from the robots you see masquerading around with scripted routines and checklists.

You don't continue with "the games", you continue seducing her because it's part of who you are and congruent with your personality. Or at least that's how it should be.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Mar 18, 2015 7:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When to stop "gaming" ?
This question is as simple as..

Who does she now want to be in a relationship with.. The guy that you've been being these last 3-4 months or this new guy you're going to become once in a relationship?

I think that takes care of it. Trust and comfort are built on routine. What you did to get her is usually what you will have to continue to do to keep her.

Meaning.. If you called her everyday for the first 3months (with few exceptions) that better be what you do throughout the relationship. If you only called her 2-3 times a week the same rule applies. Consistency.

Guys develop oneitis and start doing too much, or get too comfortable - do less, and get cheated on.

You have to keep up with whatever you started. Its not like a JOB in which increased levels of production will get you a promotion. She's the one that wants the promotion into a relationship.. then into being engaged, and then married.

And last but not least, women take words a bit more serious than we do. If you give a woman the title of relationship she will assume that you are considering the possibility of marrying her.

I remember I dated this one girl who I would sleep with once a week with protection. And then one day I just didn't have any protection and so i slept with her without it. And she assumed we were together; that I was serious about her. She's like " When you slept with me without protection i took that as a sign that you must really want to be with me. Because anything could happen when you do that, so you must not mind the possibility of a child with me" .. And i was just trying to get laid. Nothing serious at all.

So women look into things a lot deeper than we do on the emotional level. Guys talk our shit all the time, we don't necessarily mean all the shit we say, we're just having fun and being guys. Feel me?
Author:  dtrak [ Wed Mar 18, 2015 7:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When to stop "gaming" ?
Lol here
I'm going to improvise this and title it

"Basic relationship tips for dummies"

1. Have a life you're comfortable with and can bring a woman into

2. Have a life

3. Enjoy your life

4. Make the woman a part of your exciting life and show her a good time

5. Workout so you can fuck her good.

6. A girlfriend is no diffrent than a pet dog, you feed it, you give it a drink, you pet it, you take it for the occassional walk and it'll be happy, except you dont fuck your puppy.

What is this game you speak of?

Men have been fucking and dating women since the beggining of time, do you think they used this game you speak of?

.....commonn people.....

use your headssssssssss, women are simple

It isnt rocket science
Author:  DrewDating [ Thu Mar 19, 2015 2:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: When to stop "gaming" ?
Quote:
Might seem like a bit of an odd question/topic but something I've run into recently.

So.. I met a girl, she was seeing someone else at the time, gamed her over the last 3-4 months
or so, we met about 5 times (escalating on each occasion) and she has stopped contact with the other guy a month ago and now she wants to get serious with me...

Now, do I continue with the games and all that comes with it or is there a point where you just need
to relax and kind of just be yourself so to speak? Obviously I am myself anyway around her, but you get what I mean. I guess it is different depending on intentions and at the moment it is my intention to see where it goes and continue with this girl.

I just worry if I stop then she may become bored etc.

Haven't been in a relationship for a few years (before I knew about the PUA stuff) so a bit out of date on the dynamics of it all & relationships in general.
after the first time you have sex with her you can turn your game off.

she obviously likes you and if you already has sex with her, she likes you then its fine to get comfortable with her and show her the real you which should have been going on the whole time

hope this helps :)
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