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Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sun Mar 15, 2015 1:50 am ]
Post subject:  What is your choice to get into that fun state of mind

I know playing some card games with my friends gets me theree....after that, we go to a bar...tear that shit up. What about you? I haven't figured out a solo booster yet...but it will come

Author:  CESARE [ Sun Mar 15, 2015 11:36 am ]
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I usually listen to some really good music before I go out and maybe watch an episode of keys to the vip on youtube. That show always makes me think that I can't be that bad after all... I think I watched every episode like 3 times lol

Another thing i do is either playing pool or poker with my buddies or go out and have ONE drink with them (I never go sarging while drunk).

Author:  R.C [ Sun Mar 15, 2015 1:15 pm ]
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Good music before I leave the house works for me.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sun Mar 15, 2015 6:12 pm ]
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I look in the mirror marvel in all my glory bro.

Looking at myself always gets me pumped.

Music sometimes..

Or i'll just something random like scream at the top of my lungs while in line at the grocery store.

The sooner you deal with awkwardness the rest of the night will be a breeze.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sun Mar 15, 2015 6:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is your choice to get into that fun state of mind

I look in the mirror marvel in all my glory bro.

Looking at myself always gets me pumped.

Music sometimes..

Or i'll just something random like scream at the top of my lungs while in line at the grocery store.

The sooner you deal with awkwardness the rest of the night will be a breeze.

Author:  hugge [ Mon Mar 16, 2015 11:47 am ]
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This question is quite interesting from my point of view. I have a rather good default state which, if necessary, can be reached through meditation. I don't need to be in the zone when I go out, since I know I'll get there if the following condition is met: I get engaged in a conversation with someone who gives something back, inspiring each other, pumping up our state together. The opposite is more common though, and makes my state drop back to default.

Another interesting epiphany I've had recently is that some people can't tolerate people who have fun. I don't know what kind of problems they have, but they will intentionally try to destroy your state. I'm not talking about asshole strangers, but coworkers of mine and such. People one would otherwise consider "normal".

So in general, my method to get in state is to hang out with the right people, and avoid all others. :)

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 16, 2015 1:07 pm ]
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I look in the mirror marvel in all my glory bro.

Looking at myself always gets me pumped.

Music sometimes..

Or i'll just something random like scream at the top of my lungs while in line at the grocery store.

The sooner you deal with awkwardness the rest of the night will be a breeze.

I went out by myself last night. Pretty ballsy. And out of my comfort zone.

I think I'll do the marvel at my glory thing. I'm already in love with myself so that should be easy

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 16, 2015 1:09 pm ]
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This question is quite interesting from my point of view. I have a rather good default state which, if necessary, can be reached through meditation. I don't need to be in the zone when I go out, since I know I'll get there if the following condition is met: I get engaged in a conversation with someone who gives something back, inspiring each other, pumping up our state together. The opposite is more common though, and makes my state drop back to default.

Another interesting epiphany I've had recently is that some people can't tolerate people who have fun. I don't know what kind of problems they have, but they will intentionally try to destroy your state. I'm not talking about asshole strangers, but coworkers of mine and such. People one would otherwise consider "normal".

So in general, my method to get in state is to hang out with the right people, and avoid all others. :)

I'll take that as a compliment , I like this question too. Ha, you are correct, I've been asked so many times by this one coworker why am I happy or why am I in a good mood! I'm like , you should try it sometime.

Author:  oceanx [ Mon Mar 16, 2015 6:56 pm ]
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I open the first girl of the day or I just start talking to people. I get in the social mentality. Can be rusty at first but soon after it flows like a waterfall.

Author:  Malcolm Thomas [ Mon Mar 16, 2015 7:24 pm ]
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My best way to get into a fun state of mind is to LEAVE MY HOUSE and visit any local area where I am bound to see a TON of beautiful, single, sexy women.

Seeing beautiful girls in skimpy clothing, with sexy butts, and nice breasts, instantly gets me pumped up, psyched up, and ready to start approaching beautiful women.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri Apr 10, 2015 10:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is your choice to get into that fun state of mind

I figured out my pump up state. Basically tell myself, "I like to be disappointed. I just love it. Please disappoint me"

Only reason this is my thing is because my main struggle is dealing with rejection. Saying this, will get me playful and the sting won't be as bad.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Apr 10, 2015 10:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is your choice to get into that fun state of mind

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I figured out my pump up state. Basically tell myself, "I like to be disappointed. I just love it."

Only reason this is my thing is because my main struggle is dealing with rejection. Saying this, will get me playful and the sting won't be as bad.
Reminds me of an article I wrote called " Reject me. I DARE you. " Similar mindset.

Author:  bartm [ Sat Apr 11, 2015 2:14 am ]
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any public humiliation works for me. or if the first girl is a complete bitch, it works great. because I am subconsciously thinking "if that's the worst thing that can happen to me, I will still be ok"

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