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Author:  daffy duck [ Sat Mar 14, 2015 3:59 pm ]
Post subject:  TEXT CONVO - BPD attempts to manipulate
Thurs 10:30

Her: I'm falling apart babe.
Her: Got rushed to the emergency department last night.
Her: I threw up loads of blood had 4 consultants none of them knew what to do
Her: I am still here.
Her: It ain't looking good for me.
Me: Wow. That's terrible. Which hospital are u in?
Her: Lol
Her: I got transferred to (hospital) from (another hospital)
Me: Ok. I'll come to see u. (hospital) is just up the road I think
Her: I got loads of my family here I mean loads
Me: Don't worry. I'll pretend to be a friend. Which ward u on?
Her: No daffy I don't want you to come and see me like this
Her: Fvcksake I'll see u later
Me: Don't worry babe. I don't care what u look like. I must know that u are ok. Which ward baby?
Her: I'm getting my results after 1 they will proberly keep me in so just come later tonight
Me: Ok tonight I'll come. Which ward is it?
Me: Also send me a picture of ur family if u can. Would be nice to see what they look like. Hopefully one day I will be family too.
Her: (She sends an old picture of her and her dad)
Her: That's my dad
Her: I love my dad
Her: I love everyone
Me: Lol. No I mean the familly u have in the hospital. I like big family pictures.
Her: Oh
Her: Lol why?
Her: I will do
Her: Hold on
Her: Hey
Her: Not having a bar of it
Her: Anyway daffy I'll let u know my results
Her: Ad if I will be kept in
Her: If I am u better come and see me
Me: Ok. Which ward u on?
Me: You must be tired. Do't worry I'll call the hospital and ask..
Her: ok lol
Me: Lol
Me: Hospital doesn't have you as a patient so couldn't tell me the ward. Can u tell me which ward u r on so I know where to visit u?
Her: What the fvck
Her: Just read all these messages
Her: U don't believe me do u
Her: Just come to me later
Me: Lol
Me: Ur right I don't believe you. And unless u give me photographic evidence or the ward name then that unbelief isn't going to change.
Her: Lol
Her: U make me sick u tho
Her: U are crazy
Her: U know what, I have given u no indication to that
Her: Do u just want to dump me babe.
Her: Will that be better for u
Her: I understand if u do there will be no problem. U do what u think is best and have a great day.
Me: Ok. Thanks.
Her: No worries
Her: I really thought u was the one for me but this proves a lot to me it really does. I could be dying and u don't care. which is fine, u have trust issues ad that's a problem. I need u by my side at this time but u are against me. I am very disappointed. I have to say I had some great times with u and I'll never forget u. But take care and no hard feelings. I'll be honest there's nothing worse than what i'm feeling right now, thanks for adding to that.
Her: Ur fake mate.
Her: I will never forgive u
Her: This is the worst thing anyone has done to me
Her: Ur love is not real. Like u said the other night, u only love urself I can see that now
Her: I've got respect for my self to tell u goodbye
Her: Can I ask y my picture is still on ur SPAM
Her: If we're done.
I change my profile pic to something unrelated. The earth from space.
Her: Aww how nice.
Her: The world.
Her: I don't think you realise how much i hate the world right now.
Her: I hate it so much.
Her: U take care daffy.
Her: I love u
Her: And u have hurt me so much
Her: I can't deal with it
Her: Ur love was never real
Her: Just a game I was
Her: I told my dad just now because I told him I'm dumped as well and he told me a few things that made me feel worse then i do
Her: THere's no way I can see u again
Her: Block me then pscyho
Her: I hate u so much
Her: So fvcking much
Her: Block me then
Her: Because you dumped me, block me then. what u waiting for
Her: ?
Her: I hate u daffy
Her: And I love u at the same time and I miss u
Her: Ur my everything u kno that
Her: And u do this to me
Her: How can u do this to me didn't I ever mean sh1t to u
Her: I have injection marks letters medication
Her: And a wrist band with my name on it
Her: Ur fvcked in the head
Her: Do u know that? Ur not fvcking normal
Her: Sick
A few hours later I decide to call her place of work under an assumed name. Her colleague goes to put me through but then comes back to tell me she's 'not in the office'. I also email her colleague (who I know) and he confirms that she's been in work all day. The next barrage of texts follow:
Her: Are u off ur fvcking head
Her: Don't ever ring my work and get rude to my friends
Her: What the fvck is wrong with u
Her: D1ck head
Her: I fvcking hate u u kno that ye
Her: Who the fvck do u think u are
Her: Trevor Howells (my assumed name was Trevor HOward)
Her: Fvck off
Her: U upset my mate that's it
Her: And shifts cancelled (She works for an agency that supplies to our company)
Her: U tell ur colleagues cancel my shifts all they want dont care as this is my last day I'm leaving the country mate so ha ha to u
Her: Goin back to the office to hand my phone in and worked my last day today
Her: I actually hate u trust me on that one and u are never seeing my fvcking face again crack on
Her: Do you kno what I'm coming to ur house in a taxi I am on my way
Her: Actually no I ain't coming
Her: Nah
Her: Fvk it
Her: I ain't coming no were near ur house no way not after the last time I am not begging for u ur love is fake and I am not a mug anymore

17:19

Fri

19:05 Her: I love u
19:44 Her: I am smashed ignore that message
19:44 Her: I don't even kno who this is
19:47 Her: Have fun with tatiyana and I'll have fun with someone too
Author:  CountRedRover [ Sat Mar 14, 2015 4:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: TEXT CONVO - BPD attempts to manipulate
Lol. This made me laugh.
Is there a question here though?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat Mar 14, 2015 6:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: TEXT CONVO - BPD attempts to manipulate
Run.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Mar 16, 2015 12:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: TEXT CONVO - BPD attempts to manipulate
Holy shit-sticks.

Are you asking how you handled this? I'm not sure why you posted this (though it was entertaining, don't get me wrong).

She's a nut, bro.

Only thing I'd critique is (and I don't know how old you guys are...) Accusing her of lying about being in the hospital - that's a bold accusation (is she a chronic liar or something? You seem to have actually caught her lying - from the looks of it...)
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 16, 2015 1:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: TEXT CONVO - BPD attempts to manipulate
Please tell me more. I was like woah. But I'm curious now about your relationship. She probably has a red flag hanging in her room because that's alll red flags. Freaked me out a bit that you caught her in her lie
Author:  daffy duck [ Mon Mar 16, 2015 9:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: TEXT CONVO - BPD attempts to manipulate
I do think she is a chronic liar and has a personality disorder. There is no borderline about it.

The texts you read on the Friday was when she was out with friends and very drunk shortly to be followed by cocaine-taking that same night by her own admission. Clearly someone who was in hospital coughing up blood the night before and supposedly on medication would not be out partying on a Friday night.

She later admitted she was not at the hospital she said she was but at another hospital??? Either way she was lying.

I understand why she did it. She is very insecure. I am 41 and she is 26. I gamed this girl hard from the outset playing on her insecurities (as game does - hence why it works so well on unstable girls). Perhaps I overgamed hence her need to make up lies to gain my attention.

The moment she made it clear she did not want me to visit her in hospital was when I knew it was a lie hence the bold accusation. Who (on death's door) would not want their supposed 'loved one' to visit them in hospital, right?

The red flags were waving fast and furious from the get-go with this one and it didn't take Sigmund Freud to work this out.

There are no questions to be asked here. Just posted it to give you an idea of what a real BPD looks like.
Author:  Onoma [ Mon Mar 16, 2015 10:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: TEXT CONVO - BPD attempts to manipulate
Quote:
I do think she is a chronic liar and has a personality disorder. There is no borderline about it.
For the record, the name is Borderline Personality Disorder. I know it sounds like she's "close to" having a disorder or something... but that's just the name of the disorder.
Author:  daffy duck [ Tue Mar 17, 2015 12:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: TEXT CONVO - BPD attempts to manipulate
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I do think she is a chronic liar and has a personality disorder. There is no borderline about it.
For the record, the name is Borderline Personality Disorder. I know it sounds like she's "close to" having a disorder or something... but that's just the name of the disorder.
If there is a distinction between 'borderline' and an outright disorder then she is an out and out sociopath at best or a psychopath at worst.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Tue Mar 17, 2015 1:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: TEXT CONVO - BPD attempts to manipulate
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I do think she is a chronic liar and has a personality disorder. There is no borderline about it.
For the record, the name is Borderline Personality Disorder. I know it sounds like she's "close to" having a disorder or something... but that's just the name of the disorder.
If there is a distinction between 'borderline' and an outright disorder then she is an out and out sociopath at best or a psychopath at worst.

She might be a sociopath....

you jinxed me...just ran into one lol. She got really upset I didn't text her back...went off on me...smh
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