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Author:  Don Horneone [ Fri Mar 13, 2015 6:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Who were you when you were getting rejected?

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UPDATE: I did my first direct approach (if you wanna call it that), asking this girls number who was sitting down with headphones on right off the bat. She took them off and listened then kinda laughed off my can I get your number beautiful comment and put her head phones back on as soon as those words came out my mouth.....
Don't mean to pick on this guy's comment, nothing wrong with it, but I realised no girl would ever react that way to me. I've never had a woman laugh off my approach. I'm not the guy women laugh off, I'm the guy they react to with "this guy's weird, I don't know where he's coming from". Sounds like the ladies GoingUp is approaching don't find him a threat at all. With me, they don't know if they do or not I guess, but they don't laugh.

When you were first starting out and doing bad with women, what kind of reactions did you get? People thinking you were weird? Harmless? Gay? And should there be different programs for guys depending on what kind of reaction they're currently getting?

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Mar 13, 2015 6:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Who were you when you were getting rejected?

Whether they think you're weird or they laugh you;re not getting with them so I'm not sure that matters. Those two things are equal if you ask me. They're just two different routes to the same destination.

I've been doing this shit since I was about 12-13 years old consistently before I even heard of a PUA community. I would always watch my dad chase women up and down the streets so it came naturally to me. Not to mention I live in new york city and women are every where. And I was never exactly "bad" at it, I would getting some and losing some since I started. Its almost 15 years later and I'm still here.

But sometimes you get the " Weird" sometimes you get the "laugh" if you've never had a woman laugh you simply aren't approaching enough.

That guy only did one approach and it looks like he lucked up. I'm sure that within his next few approaches he'll experience the "weird" and potentially a "laugh" or a "success".

Its all the nature of the game and the responses can be a bit unpredictable.

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