DOES ANYONE HAVE ADVICE ON HOW TO PUT MY ASS ON THE LINE WITH OUT LETTING NEGATIVITY, OR REJECTION BRING ME DOWN OR CHANGE PERCEPTION OF MYSELF..

You have to be a strong person, with a teflon-like demeanor. You going to let some girl affect your reality? Come on man you're stronger than that, you were built to withstand a LOT more than some girl saying 'no' to you.

Also what would compel a woman to hand over her phone number on the spot. Why not go talk to her, feel out the vibe the two of you have and then if she seems cool, go for the #. By just directly asking for the number you are implicitly telling the girl "the ONLY reason I am interested in you is because of your bangin body, I have no standards in terms of a woman's intelligence, how we vibe, how she treats me etc., I will put up with anything, I just like your body and want to get with you."

Its not just the NO, but since I am ugly, it makes me sad I look the way I do, depending on how I was rejected....So I'm wondering if theres a way to be happy with being uniquely ugly and truly not give a fuck.....

as far as asking for the girls number right off the bat being seen as me being a push over willing to put up with anything how about if I said " Whats your number? I ask because you look good and I want 2 see if theres more to you then your sexy looks."

Cold approach is not for ugly guys. People telling you otherwise, are leading you down a painful path that you will almost certainly not emerge from.
You need to work on setting up situations where you can meet and interact with the same women on multiple occasions.

Phone numbers are garbage. They don't increase your sexual options at all. What increases your sexual options is girls who are interested in fucking you. That has nothing to do with phone numbers. Get 200 phone numbers from girls who do not want to have sex with you(like Vince Kelvin does every week), and you get literally nothing out of it. Get ONE number from a girl who is sexually interested in you, and you now have a very good chance of getting laid. Numbers are simply a way to get things set up with a girl who is interested in you.

Basically now you're in the process of breaking yourself apart and building a stronger you.

Approach, talk to girls. Realize that validation from girls doesn't matter, and it isn't that hard to get.

Work on your inner game/confidence/frame control. These are all largely interconnected.

Start to think about what you really want in life, what really motivates you. What are you building your frame on? What makes you you?

You should never sacrifice who you are for some random girl you want to fuck. By that I don't mean don't change yourself to improve - you should do that, and if you want to fuck girls, you should improve yourself in ways that girls care about, but never become some girl's entertainment, or emotional support monkey.

Be your own man.

I agree on some parts.....but thats why I'm being direct in vocalizing the sexiness of the women whose phone number I'm asking FOR, and even telling her I'm interested in sexting in order 2 see if she can send me hot enough pics that'll motivate me to sleep at her house....

(of course the girl has to give me at least 3 minutes to even get out all these words, and so far as soon as I asked for phone number, the ONE GIRL I did ask immediately put her head phones on....so in time we'll see...but thats why I don't want to use indirect cold approaching..I want to be blunt,so the numbers I DO get are likely D.T.F and not waste of time girls....and right now JUST OPENING MY MOUTH to a girl FIRST is a victory for me at this stage YESTERDAY IT FELT SO GOOD 2 get rejected.

Yeah, but see, that's not going to work. Because women are every bit as visual as men(only with higher standards) when you first meet her. Because you're ugly, none of them want to fuck you on sight. None.
There is nothing you are going to say or do in the course of ten minutes to make her want to fuck you. Nothing.
In all the time I've been here, not one new dude on the forum has succeeded with this strategy. I only know of one poster who knows a legit ugly guy(not just face, but pudgy too), who can actually do this. One. And I have never met such a man.
Develop a plan where you can meet many new women, but see the same ones on several occasions. Work on developing charisma.
Get in good shape. A man with an ugly face and a nice body is still attractive.
Take a look at this thread. Do you see how much better looking this man is than you? And yet, in 3 years, and over 4,000 approaches, he has failed to get laid even once.

Cold approach is a poor choice even for fairly nice looking guys, because it's socially bizarre and most women will just not fuck some dude she met in Krogers.

It's suicide for ugly men in bad shape. I can tell you're just going to try and bash your head against the wall, and feel free. It's not a big deal to try this out and see what I'm telling you first hand. But what I am asking, is that if you're three months into this with no lays from attractive women, please think about developing a network of social activities so you can do what will actually work for you.

You must be from a small town

I've never done anything but direct; so have plenty of my friends. Not all of them are lookers..