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| Author: | Cool Hand Luke [ Thu Mar 12, 2015 3:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to become great through self coaching |
This is from "Bad Boy" lifestyle- How to coach yourself Coaching myself is probably the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. Its even worst because I have done it in pre-Internet area, no e-books, no youtube videos, no newsletters and all other resources that you guys have nowadays on your disposal. I was alone, going out trying what works, what doesn’t, I was discovering hot water all by myself. So I totally understand what you guys are going through, and that’s why I want to be your support and guide in your journey. I went through much more shit that you can ever imagine. In my learning years, I have made every mistake that there is in a Game. Every mistake you have done past weekend with a girl I did it , every mistake you will do in upcoming weekend, I have done as well, and developed an solution for it, or learned how to avoid it. Every puzzle, every minute, every second of the game I mastered and fine-tuned. There was a time, when I was so much with girls, that I knew what they going to say before they they even thought about saying it. I think that was a peak of my game. It happened in a year 5. As I was talking with a girl, I was 3-4 minutes in future, I know what she will be saying 3min ahead of a time. It felt like in movie Matrix. I could slow down the time. I doubt you will have that much of an time, energy, and dedication to do same thing I did. Only crazy person can do something like that. It took me 3-4 years to get really good. For 2 years that was only thing I was doing 24h per day - hunting pussy. Of course, you don’t have 2-3 years to only work only on this area of your life 24 hours per day, you have to work, live.. I was crazy, I was insane those days. So today morning while sipping cup of coffee in a park close to my house, I asked myself : If I could develop a program with this knowledge I have nowadays and send this program back with Time Machine to myself when I was starting out, so instead of 5 years that I wasted, I spend like few months for same knowledge. So I started writing some notes in my Iphone 6 . And I came up with some brilliant Ideas. Mistake I was doing back in the days is same mistake you guys are doing right now you try to talk to some girls, you try to pickup, to seduce them, to get them…And then sometimes it works, sometimes not. This is where I lost biggest amount of time. Fucking Freestyle. Then you come home and try to analyze what went wrong. Learning it like that it can take you years, like it took me. I am perfect example. Instead of you trying to master everything at once, you should focus on Segments. I really wish someone told me that 17-18 years ago! I had no Idea that there are segments, or that you can break it the game into elements. If I could go back in time, I would coach myself totally different, to be more time efficient, and get better results. And this is what you guys should do as well now. This is the Best and Only way to successfully coach yourself. So this is letter / program I would design and send it to myself with Time Machine back when I was 19yo. This is a advice I would give to my self. Image "Dear Dan, I am sending you this from future, don’t ask much questions, and try to figure out how & why, just do it. You have problems with girls, and you have to to solve this problem and to speed up your learning curve. This is what you going to do. Let this letter be your Seduction Bible. Each weekend you will go out and practice specific element in seduction. After 2 months, you will put those elements together and they will work perfectly. In those first 2 months, do not try to get girls, just practice given element. All right? This way you will save 5-6 years of your life! Weekend 1 : Take 2 days, friday and Saturday, and just practice openers. Go direct, Indirect., talk to girls for 1-2min, and eject. See you later girls.Choose 2 big clubs and approach all girls in clubs. Find what works, what doesn't work for you. Try direct, indirect, conversational. Try different energy, try being nice on opener, try being dominant. Do as many mistakes as possible. You are doing this only once in a lifetime. Get used to go in and eject. Just open and close. Do a 50 approaches each night. Do this and you will get really good at opening. You will find things that work and don’t work.Do not blame yourself for rejections. try to learn from them. Lot’s of things won’t work. Find few openers that give you best results and remember those ones. 50approaches X 2min = 100min = 2hours. Those 2 nights will change your life. Go Wild. If you are afraid to destroy your city, go to some city/ town nearby. weekend 2 : Go out and do 30 approaches per night, and focus only on conversation. Try to get to know them, as if you you are talking with friend. Don't try to impress them, get attraction, nothing, just make solid conversation. Try to get to know who are they, their dreams, fantasies, fears, what to they like, what do they hate.. Focus on those topics :Music, sports, hobbies, movies, travel, childhood, family, relationships. Do not try to pick them up, just open and become their friend. Focus on creating connection. Let them see you as a friend. I know this doesn't makes sense right now, but trust me on a word here. I am writing you this letter 20 years from now. I will give you a hint about conversation : Tell Stories. Lots of stories, and they will open up. do not take a phone numbers, or try to close them, just high five, thank them for conversation and eject. Leave positive energy in a each group before you leave. Do 60 approaches this weekend. weekend 3 : this weekend is crucial. take friday and saturday, and do this same thing as last weekend, but this time just add sexual energy on top of friendly conversation. Last weekend girls saw you as a friend, now they will start seeing you as a guy to have sex with.I want you to focus only on one thing and that is Turning them on. Making them horny.Think at home how will you do it, verbally and non-verbally. think of moves and sentences. Hint : Be dirty with a smile on face, and whisper to their left ear. Go out and try million ways to get them sexual, get them horny. Some will work some not. Do not try to fuck them, just play with emotions. Get them horny, then, get them back logical, then horny again. Practice this whole weekend. This is the secret element of seduction. Weekend 4 : This weekend you will only focus on kissing. I want you to do this. take again 2 days, do a 30 approaches each night. and try to open, get conversation with a girl and kiss her. Try to kiss after 5min, 10min, 20min, try different kiss close, Verbal, non verbal.Find what works and what doesn't work for you. Do not get nervous. Set yourself an alarm on your phone for 5 min, and once alarm goes on, force yourself to kiss her. Your mind will find a way to kiss her. Expect 90% of rejections and mistakes. That’s good, that’s perfect. Because the 10% you find will be pure gold, and it will be 100% of your future game. Go out and find those 10% that work. take 2 weekends for this if you need it. Kissing girls under pressure has to be for you like drinking water. you just execute, no thinking involved. Weekend 5 : Again, take 2 days and practice Isolation girls away form her friends. Leading. This is the last element you have to practice. Do 20 approaches per night. Focus on groups only. 2/3/4/5 girls. Open, get conversation for 5 min, and figure out how to isolate them away from friends. Don't do anything else. Isolate, bring them back to group and eject. This 5 weekends will give you everything you need for foundations for a good game. I challenge you to do it. " I challenge all of you guys as well to do it, and report me back how its going for you. Badboy Sincerely, Badboy |
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