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Author:  joker666ro [ Fri Mar 06, 2015 8:19 am ]
Post subject:  tough challenge; need advice
Hey Guys, need an advice from you.
I met this girl on facebook (common friends; we meet once at a friend's house for like 5 minutes; she is a 9; I'm a 7 maybe 8 in a sunny day :) ). The issue is that she is in a stable relationship. Unhappy but 2-3 years old so pretty stable.
We've start talking on FB, I've follow the routines described here and everything went great: I got a first date (two days ago). The date went also well: we had great time and we kissed. Yesterday evening (one day after the date) I got a message from her saying that she had a great time with me and she likes me very much. But she doesn't want to cheat on her boyfriend nor she can dump him now. So “we can't continue like this ” (have no clue what she mean by that) but she would like to keep in touch (=keep talking). Since that message she texted me few times more: small talk about food, weather, job etc. I've responded laconically and not to all messages.
I do like her a lot and looks like girlfriend material but I don't know if there are still chances to take her and how should I proceed. Any advices?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri Mar 06, 2015 1:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: tough challenge; need advice
So you'd like to date a girl who's apparently fine with kissing and dating other guys while she's dating you?

That's what you're going to get, you know.
Author:  joker666ro [ Fri Mar 06, 2015 1:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: tough challenge; need advice
Quote:
So you'd like to date a girl who's apparently fine with kissing and dating other guys while she's dating you?

That's what you're going to get, you know.
Yes! :)
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri Mar 06, 2015 2:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: tough challenge; need advice
Ok then.

I think you should just find a girl without a boyfriend. Drama and bullshit is what's coming your way... then she's going to cheat on you -- but to each his own:

I'd point you to an earlier post where Eddie Fews had some decent advice concerning 'reassuring her' that it was OK to move forward.

Her comments around "We can't continue like this" are her saying "tell me it's OK to continue like this"...

Check this thread. May be relevant to your situation:
help-new-member-here-i-like-this-girl-m ... 88327.html
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Mar 06, 2015 7:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: tough challenge; need advice
Quote:
Quote:
So you'd like to date a girl who's apparently fine with kissing and dating other guys while she's dating you?

That's what you're going to get, you know.
Yes! :)

The proper question is..

So you're comfortable with the fact that this girl is going to cheat on you when you are with her? And if that's a yes.. Why be monogamous? Why not just being in an open FWB relationship with her?
Author:  joker666ro [ Sat Mar 07, 2015 2:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: tough challenge; need advice
Quote:
Ok then.

Check this thread. May be relevant to your situation:
help-new-member-here-i-like-this-girl-m ... 88327.html

Charles, thank you for the comment. Lots of useful information in that post.
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