What do I do if this happens again? I will definitely confront her but what do I say? or what do I do now? Ideas?

So she is probably an HB7 with all of her makeup on(HB6 without). I can tell she is very self-conscious because she never really speaks to anyone nor does she ever really make eye contact. She mostly keeps to herself, she is friendly with the more naive girl of the group. I tried to be friendly to her towards the start of the school year(fall quarter), tried joking around and saying hi every now and then. I can honestly say I haven't really had a problem with her except that I noticed she sort of whipped her boyfriend but he's the desperate beta type anyway. My cold read is that she is a little control freak, micro manager type. Anyway:

Here's the problem

We have been living for 4 month together already and there hasn't been an issue with rent whatsoever. I have always paid rent, never missed a payment. If for some reason I didn't have the money by the due date I'd borrow money from a different roommate and pay it back promptly. I have always been responsible. Now back up to this weekend. I go home for the weekend admittedly, paying rent escaped my mind. So I get a text.

Her: Taylor, it's Sunday and the rent is due. When will you be home?

Tyler: Hey what's up. My name is spelled Tyler btw. I'll be home later.

Her: Tiylr, I have to make a deposit today, next time pay before you leave.

Tyler: You spelled my name wrong again. It's cool Other roommate X will give you my portion of the rent this time.

Her: Yeah got it.

Obviously this is very passive aggressive and a little rude misspelling my name after I corrected her TWICE. She cannot deal with confrontation because the first thing I did when I came home is I just sort of looked her in the eyes without saying anything, she didn't look back for a second. She is my roommate and I don't want to make my home a battlefield so I just sort of let it slide. I paid her form something else I owed her, even said thank you to her after she gave me back change.

What do I do if this happens again? I will definitely confront her but what do I say? or what do I do now? Ideas?

So she is probably an HB7 with all of her makeup on(HB6 without). I can tell she is very self-conscious because she never really speaks to anyone nor does she ever really make eye contact. She mostly keeps to herself, she is friendly with the more naive girl of the group. I tried to be friendly to her towards the start of the school year(fall quarter), tried joking around and saying hi every now and then. I can honestly say I haven't really had a problem with her except that I noticed she sort of whipped her boyfriend but he's the desperate beta type anyway. My cold read is that she is a little control freak, micro manager type. Anyway:

Here's the problem

We have been living for 4 month together already and there hasn't been an issue with rent whatsoever. I have always paid rent, never missed a payment. If for some reason I didn't have the money by the due date I'd borrow money from a different roommate and pay it back promptly. I have always been responsible. Now back up to this weekend. I go home for the weekend admittedly, paying rent escaped my mind. So I get a text.

Her: Taylor, it's Sunday and the rent is due. When will you be home?

Tyler: Hey what's up. My name is spelled Tyler btw. I'll be home later.

Her: Tiylr, I have to make a deposit today, next time pay before you leave.

Tyler: You spelled my name wrong again. It's cool Other roommate X will give you my portion of the rent this time.

Her: Yeah got it.

Obviously this is very passive aggressive and a little rude misspelling my name after I corrected her TWICE. She cannot deal with confrontation because the first thing I did when I came home is I just sort of looked her in the eyes without saying anything, she didn't look back for a second. She is my roommate and I don't want to make my home a battlefield so I just sort of let it slide. I paid her form something else I owed her, even said thank you to her after she gave me back change.

What do I do if this happens again? I will definitely confront her but what do I say? or what do I do now? Ideas?

Alright Toyler, here's what you need to do...

Sounds to me like you like her and her lack of respect for you is actually turning you on.

The misspellings were obviously purposing; but giving her attention for it only provides her with the passion to continue; because you're " Noticing". Had you ignored her and kept it short and to the point with her she would show you a lot more respect.

You're trying to " game " her and set some verbal boundary and as a result she is toying with you and treating you like the child you're acting like. You don have to assert yourself verbally like that. Its immature; a nerds way of "standing up for himself".

A man takes action, he doesn't cry.

Buy a sticker that says " tyler" and stick it on the front of her door. When she asks say " So you know how to spell my name next time. "

push her boundaries a bit. Or.. just move out. Or stop acknowledging her. She's your roommate, not your girlfriend or friend.

So she is probably an HB7 with all of her makeup on(HB6 without). I can tell she is very self-conscious because she never really speaks to anyone nor does she ever really make eye contact. She mostly keeps to herself, she is friendly with the more naive girl of the group. I tried to be friendly to her towards the start of the school year(fall quarter), tried joking around and saying hi every now and then. I can honestly say I haven't really had a problem with her except that I noticed she sort of whipped her boyfriend but he's the desperate beta type anyway. My cold read is that she is a little control freak, micro manager type. Anyway:

Here's the problem

We have been living for 4 month together already and there hasn't been an issue with rent whatsoever. I have always paid rent, never missed a payment. If for some reason I didn't have the money by the due date I'd borrow money from a different roommate and pay it back promptly. I have always been responsible. Now back up to this weekend. I go home for the weekend admittedly, paying rent escaped my mind. So I get a text.

Her: Taylor, it's Sunday and the rent is due. When will you be home?

Tyler: Hey what's up. My name is spelled Tyler btw. I'll be home later.

Her: Tiylr, I have to make a deposit today, next time pay before you leave.

Tyler: You spelled my name wrong again. It's cool Other roommate X will give you my portion of the rent this time.

Her: Yeah got it.

Obviously this is very passive aggressive and a little rude misspelling my name after I corrected her TWICE. She cannot deal with confrontation because the first thing I did when I came home is I just sort of looked her in the eyes without saying anything, she didn't look back for a second. She is my roommate and I don't want to make my home a battlefield so I just sort of let it slide. I paid her form something else I owed her, even said thank you to her after she gave me back change.

What do I do if this happens again? I will definitely confront her but what do I say? or what do I do now? Ideas?