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Author:  TheMatrix [ Tue Mar 03, 2015 12:39 pm ]
Post subject:  How to re-frame?

Met a girl before I knew about game, made a lot of mistakes and fell in the friendzone. On the plus side, we have lots of trust and confort.

In the meantime I developed my social skills, lost most of the "nice guy" act, improved my looks and physique and became a lot more confident. Everyone who knows me noticed the difference, except her since we see each other almost everyday.

How do I make her forget the old me and see me as a sexual guy and potential mate and not just her friend?

Cheers!

Author:  Hank1801 [ Tue Mar 03, 2015 1:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to re-frame?

Why is it that you see her everyday?

You should maybe think about putting some distance between the 2 of you every now and then, you need to let her miss you and make it look like you are a busy and in demand guy who has a fulfilling life.

You should also stop focusing so much on her and look around you at the hundreds and hundreds of other available girls, when she sees that you are going after other girls and are successful and in demand it is almost a guarantee that she will take notice. Trust me man its almost like girls can smell it on you, its like they can sense that sh*t and all of a sudden you become irresistible!

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Mar 03, 2015 6:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to re-frame?

You begin getting sexual man.

Your physique means shit, and so does your looks. Its all about the vibe you are producing around her. If you're still producing the "friend zone me because I have no sexual intentions with you" vibe she will continue to give you the friend zone vibe.

You need to make an energetic switch, although I think you are far too deep in to do this now.

What you are going to have to do is to take strong bold sexual risk. If you aren't ready to do this; that is exactly why you're in the friend zone.

If you're afraid of potentially fucking up and ruing you guys relationship that is exactly why you're in the friend zone.

Grab her ass, try to kiss her.. Make a strong move.

Author:  TheMatrix [ Wed Mar 04, 2015 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to re-frame?

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Why is it that you see her everyday?
We work for the same company, although in diferent departments. But still it's inevitable to bump in each other. We also started hanging after work but, already intending to put some distance, I cut down on that.

Thank you both. Any more opinions are welcome.

Author:  Dragula [ Wed Mar 04, 2015 10:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to re-frame?

Keep improving and she will eventually get sucked in and ask you questions, then make your move. You see her everyday, update your Facebook with awesome shit. be really positive at work, Keep dressing super smart for work till all the girls give you attention.

by the time comes to Xmas they will be begging you for your love sausage and she will just be in the queue

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Mar 04, 2015 2:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to re-frame?

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...begging you for your love sausage...
Sounds lame.

Why can't you just say cock, dick, schublig or brattwurst? Is that how the Britons do it? Tone down or understate everything?

Author:  Dragula [ Wed Mar 04, 2015 3:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to re-frame?

Shut it cock face :P

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Mar 05, 2015 3:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to re-frame?

lol.

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