Very probably not. If that thing is an insecurity over something that isn't her I'd say.

not her liking him, but more of an aspect of her dating history (like amount of guys or something)

Depends on the size( no pun intended if thats what it is lol).. It has for me before and hasn't during other times. Its all about how you handle it and how you present it to her and why.

What is it? We're all bros here right lol

Thats all on you bro.

I personally can't relate to that insecurity, but there used to be some shit I was really insecure about, but just grew and got over it. If it doesn't both you, it won't bother her. If it bothers you it will bother her. Women are just following our leads at the end of the day.

right, and I never bring this up anymore.

she occasionally had said something like (smiling) "i could tell you something...can you handle it????" ect, but I called her out on her games and she pretty much told me:

"well you have so much power in this relationship! I didn't mean it"


but doesn't it mean she is kind of a low quality woman? don't high quality women know this is not an area to mess with a guy?

She knows bro. And thats exactly why she's doing it. Because she has to make you stronger. If she never brought this shit up you would be walking around with pseudo confidence about your shit. It was a great thing that she did this; now you can look at yourself and build up the necessary confidence around that particular area.

The higher quality the women the more she will check on the areas she gets the intuitive sense that you're not too secure about so that you can strengthen them. An insecurity in you is a insecurity in her. She's following your LEAD.. And we all know that if theres one thing women want thats security. And in not just the physical sense.. in the emotional sense like this one here. You know how opportunity to provide that. See the light at the end of the tunnel. It hurts now, but you're stronger when its all said and done.

It may take time bro. It was a wound.

If you had a cut and you asked me what to do to make it heal what would I say? You just have to wait and tough that shit out until it heals with time and the removal of attention.

Emotional wounds are no different then physical wounds. You'll ego may have went into hiding for a bit, but it'll be right back in no time. Its just hibernating. You'll be back. Just chill.. Stop posting about it and stop reading about it. Cuts her most when we give our attention to it. Your body only goes to heal it when you ignore it. Thinking of it, posting it and reading it is like touching a paper cut. You have to leave it alone.

You're sounded hella insecure now. If you can't handle her, drop her man. Simple. I don't see the issue. My perspective is she made you stronger, but this is your life. Leave her if you want.