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| Author: | psiconauta [ Wed Feb 25, 2015 2:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I met her in 10 min then held hands walked hugged but NOkiss |
I work out at this park. I was doing my routine at the bars and a couple of girls appear. I did very strong eye contact with one of them a couple of times and after a while I opened. We talked, escalated, build some rapport (this actually an area/skill I want to master because Im weak at it). Then both girls said they had to go, and I asked "are you going north?" and she replied "yeah, why? you wanna come?" and I said "You wanna take me?" and she smiled and said, "its okay for me". So we walked, after a while I was taking her by the hand and stuff. But her friend was always around. I tried to isolate her from her friend by saying "you should go first" but it didnt work. When we were walking behind her friend do to the small street I tried to kiss and she denied the kiss. After that she said things like "Dont get me wrong, Im not that kind of girl" and smile. I backed off and then stopped kino for a while , then escalated again (all of this on the street behind or near her friend) but she reacted the same way. But we still holding hands, hugging... its kinda contradicting. I didnt ask for her number (honestly I forgot) because I actually wasnt that interested so I feel like meh. But I do really like the idea of me actually learning and having a smoother game. (last time I kissed a girl Ive met 20 min before at the same park). But I need to sharp some things .. Any feedback is welcomed. |
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| Author: | Rebooting [ Wed Feb 25, 2015 2:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I met her in 10 min then held hands walked hugged but NO |
If I was you, I probably would have taken it a bit easier: It sounds like you did some great escalation, why would you go for all or nothing instead of just asking for her number and setting up a proper date at some later point? Still, it sounds like you did a pretty good job there. Keep it up, man, you sound pretty boss! (srsly though. Don't do this again. One day you will get too good, a girl will wind up taking you home and you will not be able to finish your training that day. IMAGINE THAT, MAN. The PAIN of a missed training *shudder*). |
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| Author: | Steve8989 [ Wed Feb 25, 2015 3:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I met her in 10 min then held hands walked hugged but NO |
I am no expert but seems to be you went for the kiss way too quickly. As mentioned maybe you should have got her number and planned a date where it is just the two of you. |
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| Author: | Ruddels [ Wed Feb 25, 2015 3:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I met her in 10 min then held hands walked hugged but NO |
Ok might be wrong over here, but here's what I would've done different. Quote: Then both girls said they had to go, and I asked "are you going north?" and she replied "yeah, why? you wanna come?" and I said "You wanna take me?" and she smiled and said, "its okay for me".  "Quote: I tried to isolate her from her friend by saying "you should go first" but it didnt work.  I think there's too much hesitation in your words. How do you recall your posture/attitude? |
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| Author: | psiconauta [ Wed Feb 25, 2015 4:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I met her in 10 min then held hands walked hugged but NO |
Quote: Ok might be wrong over here, but here's what I would've done different.
Ive been working a lot n that and I think its pretty good.Quote: Then both girls said they had to go, and I asked "are you going north?" and she replied "yeah, why? you wanna come?" and I said "You wanna take me?" and she smiled and said, "its okay for me". "Quote: I tried to isolate her from her friend by saying "you should go first" but it didnt work. I think there's too much hesitation in your words. How do you recall your posture/attitude? Im trying to do a translation from spanish , I actually went very confident when said "you wanna take me?" I Smiled and looked chill. The other thing was kinda difficult because I told her friend to leave lol |
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