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| Author: | thequietlife [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 11:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What may work for me may not work for you. |
Ok this is I guess advice as well as a question. My friend would be a gues a hm 9/10 if this was a girl rating him. All my friends and girls were out with comment on his looks. His is so opposite to what the "PUA world" teaches, like he couldn't be more opposite". He buys them flowers, openly admits he likes them early on, or its blatant.(however i do notice the girls seem to give him iois and neg him early on too) His texts messages are like essays. Believe it or not this all works for him and he does bang some hot girls. If i tried this approach...... god help me. Im not perfect i do the opposite of what he does. I know if did exactly what he did it just wouldn't work. Now basically all im saying is you have to find your own style and be yourself. But does anyone have any idea how he gets away doing all this mr nice guy shit(tbf sometime it doesn't always work) but majority of the time girls love this shit. |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 11:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What may work for me may not work for you. |
So a really really attractive and handsome guy gets girls even though he has no game? Lol, wow who would have thunk it, lol. Looks matter. A very handsome dude who is capable of carrying a conversation will have girls that want to be with him. But I also think you are misreading what he's doing. I go up all the time to girls and say "I love you!" when I first meet them. But it's only to build up emotion. One second I'll say "Damn, I think I love you" and the next second she might express an opinion I don't like and I might be saying "Oh I didn't know that about you, this ain't gonna work, it's a shame really". |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 11:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What may work for me may not work for you. |
whats the rest of his life like? Guy sounds like a push over. |
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| Author: | thequietlife [ Wed Feb 25, 2015 9:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What may work for me may not work for you. |
The thing is he isn't . He is probably the most alpha guy in the group. Bet you're thinking bunch of Pussies. Around guys he can be "Agressive" not in a harmful way. Just one of the guys you wouldn't want to fuck with,comes from a rough area. But around girls he's like a kitten in comparison. Wants to be a sports coach or something like that. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Wed Feb 25, 2015 12:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What may work for me may not work for you. |
The main problem is that in the "community" a common thought that is spread widely is that girls don't respond well to you liking them. Not so. They just don't like you liking them more than they like you. The majority of girls actually fall quite hard for a guy, quite quickly and when he's matching them in kind, it goes even faster. This is what most guys who get laid a lot do. They tell her how special and amazing she is, and how he's falling for her. They have numerous(and brief) love affairs where they're caught up in a whirlwind of passion and it dies just as quickly as it sparked. This "feign indifference" stuff, comes from a particular type of "tough asshole" guy, and works with a very specific type of drama seeking girl. These girls are vastly over represented in the club and bar scene, and so it's better advice in that context. But in real life, with a correct representation of women, it doesn't hold out well. Most girls respond better to what your friend does, than what the tough asshole does. The reason that baiting her into chasing you can work, is because she doesn't really want you much at first. Your friend however, is someone she wants right from the start. |
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