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| Author: | Psyk [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 6:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Too scared to lose girl |
Hey.The thing is that when I am chatting, I become a different person, I try to hard to keep her interested in the conversation and I am scared as f*** that she will lose interest and become bored. In trying to do that I sometimes so stupid things, like asking her weird questions or shit like that. I lost many girls like this. What is the problem here and how can i remedy this? Thank you. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 6:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Too scared to lose girl |
Simply by realizing they aren't there to kill or eat you. Your mind is overreacting to your own negative input. The cool thing is.... they are likely as nervous as you. |
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| Author: | Psyk [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 6:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Too scared to lose girl |
Quote: Simply by realizing they aren't there to kill or eat you. Your mind is overreacting to your own negative input.
I always assumed that they are in a cool and composed position while I am in a position to impress them. I guess I have to work on that. Thanks man.
The cool thing is.... they are likely as nervous as you. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 7:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Too scared to lose girl |
^^ No, I have had awkward come ons by girls. When I am looking gewd, for example. At Walmart I was standing in line, completely day dreaming, the girl in front stares at me and I stare at her until she turns around. K. She then turns around and asks me if the thing she is buying includes two curtains or one....I didn't find her attractive so I just told her the logical answer...she then moved the next register lol... Girls get just as nervous. Pretty bad too, which is why it is important to lead them into the "right direction". They can be pretty indecisive. |
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