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Author:  L. Da. Vinci [ Sun Feb 22, 2015 7:26 am ]
Post subject:  When can I message her?
This is my first post so ignore the noobness if I don't use correct pua terminology.

I will start from the beginning...

Two nights ago, there was an attractive, confident brunette fluttering around the club from guy to guy. She is white but tanned, green eyed, short, and has a tiny body but massive boobs. She is an 8 but her confidence and superior chat/intellect makes her a solid 9. I saw a guy take her to the bar to buy her a drink so as soon as they had their drinks I approached. She was leaning against the bar while they conversed so as I walked up to the couple I made sure I we made strong eye contact and held it. I grabbed her lightly by the hand and said something along the lines like
"baby, are you hungry?"
Then I turned to the guy and said
"thank you for buying my fiancee a drink. Your a captain"
Thank the gods she smiled and played along.
We talked for a couple of minutes then I convinced her to leave and get food with me.

We went to a burger stand and as we waited for our food I saw a friend and was chatting to him. I turn around and she is getting hit on by more dogs, then my mate starts having a crack too. I made conversation with a random and pretended for a couple minutes that I was interested in their chat and as soon as the food was ready I interrupted, gave her a burger and grabbed her other hand and said
"we are going on an adventure" and guided her away from the pack. I gave my burger to a homeless man, which she absolutely loved.
We walked through the city and I kept insisting that she was "trouble". I also told her several times I needed to put her in a taxi home but i'd lightly grab her by the hand, waist or pat her on the head and smile with strong eye contact every time.

We managed to walk for about an hour back to her house and rapport was high. We established we had a mutual close friend. I told her i'd only go inside with her if she made me toast, and we most definitely were not having sex. As soon as we got inside we went into the kitchen I grabbed her made out with her and told her we were going to the bedroom. We get in there make out some more strip each other naked and I kiss every crevice of her body apart from her pussy or asshole and she is absolutely peaking. I stop tell her she needs to go to sleep and I leave her disappointed.

I thought I was in absolute control of the situation. I wanted to see her again. I didn't want to fuck her so I would not lose interest. Well she must have messaged our mutual friend because we woke up to a phone call from our mutual friend who i've slept with in the past. Her friend tells her to watch out for me and that I am a player and not to let anything progress. She has the phone on speaker so her and I are smirking as the conversation goes on. After the phone call we have a laugh about it and then start getting into it. We foreplayed and gave each other head. But no sex. I made her squirt more than once through foreplay and she told me it was the first time she had ever cum from a guy going down on her and she didn't seem like she wanted me to leave.

So I left and I felt quite confident that i'd see her again. However, by now she would have found out terrible stories of me playing up and has been well warned off me. I haven't stopped thinking about her and I want to message her asking to see her again. So now you know the situation, because we had built strong rapport and I had satisfied her can I message her now? Or should I give it a couple of days? I don't want to make a wrong step by messaging too soon because she is the type of girl who constantly has men throwing themselves at her. But then I thought maybe if I message her now she might think i am genuinely interested and overlook the bad stories of my reputation. Thoughts? Also ideas for opening conversation starts are welcome/ constructive criticism is appreciated.
Author:  CountRedRover [ Sun Feb 22, 2015 7:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: When can I message her?
Quote:
"baby, are you hungry?"
Then I turned to the guy and said
"thank you for buying my fiancee a drink. Your a captain"
Thank the gods she smiled and played along.
NICEEE NICEEE....NICEEEE
Quote:
"we are going on an adventure" and guided her away from the pack. I gave my burger to a homeless man, which she absolutely loved.
Caring for people....NICEEEE
Quote:
As soon as we got inside we went into the kitchen I grabbed her made out with her and told her we were going to the bedroom. We get in there make out some more strip each other naked and I kiss every crevice of her body apart from her pussy or asshole and she is absolutely peaking. I stop tell her she needs to go to sleep and I leave her disappointed.
NICEEEE NICEEEE
I swear it's like I'm reading something I wrote.

So. For the help. Okay.

If I were you I would call her and say all this that I wrote out for you. Remember she is feeling a different way now then she was when she left! You want to get her back feeling "that" way: "Hey it's (whatever your name is). So by now (girl saying youre a player) has probably told you a bunch of shit about me. Which is probably true. And a few of those faggots like the one's I had to drag you away from are probablyy still sucking each others dick to try and be with you. But none of that matters. I don't give a shit about that. I'm calling you because... you remember when I was... (whatever sexual stuff you were doing to her. Be VERY descriptive and show it through the tone of your voice. She will begin to feel what you feel, sexual tension) Well... Tonight I want you to put on the sexiest thing you have and meet me at (your place) when you get off. Got it?" "got it" "say yes sir (to make it more sexual)" "yes sir" "see you at (whatever time you set)".

There is a chance that her response may not turn out the way I hoped. In that case man, you would just have to improvise.

If you get an answering machine I would say "Hey it's (your name). I'm kinddd of going in and out right noww.. sooo yeaaa. Give me a call back later ;). Bye." This is basically a curiosity hook. She will be curious to what you meant and will call back asking. To which you can say "I was just in traffic." Or something stupid like that.

I hope this helps!
Either way please comment back and let me know how it goes :)
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