Good tips by the guys above. Hope ya had fun on the date; ideally your second date will be back at your place.
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| Author: | MMello [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 3:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need tips for first date. |
So i met a girl at internet and we were talking for a week. We set up a date tomorrow, a walk at the park. In the meantime we are gonna be there, we will probably have a good talk. But what do i do/say when i meet her? (I have never seen her before). Ty for help |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 3:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
What is your goal for the first date? |
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| Author: | MMello [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 3:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
Quote: What is your goal for the first date?
KC at the end.
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 3:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
Most important thing that you want to do is just to have natural conversation but at the same time be able to flirt with her. Ask her light questions, but not like an interview but more like a guy that is trying to get to know and understand her (and make sure you demonstrate that you do understand). Go as deep as possible on questions by asking her questions based on answers...the trick is keep her doing the talking while you learn about who she is(also when you start of light and get deeper, she'll start trusting you more with answers on the same subject). When you demonstrate that you feel where she is coming from on deeper issues, it'll create an emotional connection. Talk to her on an emotional level. For instance, if you talk about your job...don't just say what you do and you like it. Say how it makes you feel and the satisfaction that you get out of it. Words that create emotion also create a bond. Most importantly, kino. Don't wait until the end of the date to kiss. Do it as early as possible without pushing yourself on her. |
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| Author: | MMello [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 3:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
Thanks, just one more question, how should i open the conversation? Should be like "you look great" or something? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 3:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
If that's what you think, say it. Just don't overdo compliments. |
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| Author: | Rebooting [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 8:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
When it comes to saying hello, go for the safe option. A hug, or kisses on the cheek or whatever is considered normal wherever it is you come from. Opening the conversation: "So, how have you been?" "How has your day been?" Just make sure it is some sort of open ended question (that goes for any questions you ask during the date, actually) Compliments: A "hey, looking good!" probably isn't misplaced (it shows that you appreciate the offort that you made), but that should be about it. Do not compliment her too much and if you do, compliment her on something OTHER than her looks. She knows she looks good, she has 10 guys a day hitting on her. Don't be one of those or you will quickly disqualify yourself. As in for the technicalities of the date, there is no point in me typing out what JackZero already described perdectly well (+1). Also, for the next date: It would be good if you could choose something more "active" next time other than a walk in the park. Think playing a sport. This way, the daye is guaranteed to be fun and LOADS of pressure will be taken off you. Alternatively, getting intoxicated is always fun as well, so going for drinks is also good. |
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| Author: | MMello [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 3:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
Thank you very much guys. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 4:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
Good tips by the guys above. Hope ya had fun on the date; ideally your second date will be back at your place.
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 5:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
Like JackZero said, you want to kiss her as early as possible. I try to go for the kiss on the first meet and act like we have just been dating for a while to set the girlfriend/boyfriend frame from the start. If they turn away, I just kiss them on the cheek and just continue to game them normally. |
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| Author: | Vandal PUA [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 6:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need tips for first date. |
Hey mate, The one thing that I'm probably good at are dates (During the begginning of college I went on about 4 for different chicks, 3 of them more than once). Other than that I don't claim to know much about PUA. The best advice that I have heard is from RSD. Rather than make it about being about her and worrying, make it about bringing her into your world and your reality. Be yourself, but be your best self. Honestly the advice "be your self" does work, just be confident. Try not to worry too much and you'll be fine. |
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