Quote: Wait a few days.
Then text her what day of the week she is free and then pick a day. Don't just guess which day she is free. Girls tend to be busy
Hey man. What happened was, after one hout later, she sent another text and we met at 2:10. At Starbucks near of us. But she brought 3 more friends with her. Two guys from colombian, and another japanese girl.
And that what happened during that time...
From Starbucks we went to Carl’s Jr because her Colombian friend was hungry. I took a sit first as I wouldn't eat anything and to choose a better place to myself. Her Japanese "A" friend took a sit at my left side, "R" (the Japanese girl that I was trying hit on her) took a sit on my right side. And each one of Colombians guys was sitting one corner each.
I could she through body languages that "R" was showing interested in "G", the older guy between them. Her body was leaning forward to him.
Since from begin she wasn't talking to me. So, when her Colombian friend asked me how I met her, I used this opportunity to teasing her and grab her attention. But didn't work so well. First I told that we used to studied at same school, to years ago, in Japan, and that she is a kind of troublemaker. She laughed. And then she denied. So, I told him that she dropped my drink on me when I was in her restaurant. She works as a waitress. She laughed again, and denied. And told to him don't believe in anything that I say. So I told him that I was tell him the truth this time. And explain what really happens. That I had a bad day and I was going home after work and I saw a beautiful girl on the bus stop. That point I stopped again to teasing her, and I told that maybe because was a little bit dark there... And when I told that she is beautiful she asked him if she was. Other thing that surprised me was that when I asked him about what he would do after finish his English course, she answered that they don’t know yet. So I asked if they are boyfriend/girlfriend, and she told me no, just friends.
From there we went to another place inside of metro, where has games to play. The game that I thought could be funny, because can be played by for people at same time was out of order. I played one game with "A" (Japanese girl friend of "R"), and with "D" (the youngest Colombian guy).
And I started notice that when I was talking with one person, "R" was talking with another.
From there we started a journey trying finding a Japanese Cafeteria open, because "A" wanted have a coffee. We tried two different locations. I helped her to find both, but they were closed. Finally she chose a non-Japanese cafeteria. I took a sit first, looking for the best place. This time the girls were sitting in front of me, and one Colombian guy at each side of me.
"R" took the menu, gave a look at it, and put in a kind of stone that was on the table and the place use to show the price of some foods. Because the menu is tall, wasn’t easy look to her. I took the menu, gave a look on it. Put it on the table. And then move the stone to the middle of the table, give me space enough to look to her without anything to block us.
During the time that we spent there she only showed interested in talk to me when "G" started talking about Carnival in Brazil. But was just for a couple minutes.
From there we went to a Supermarket to "A" buy her dinner. When we were there I spent a good time talking with "G", explaining to him about one course that I have been doing. He liked the idea.
We when went out of supermarket, we talked at the exit for a few minutes. "R" was talking with the Colombian guys, and I was talking with "A". I asked "A" if she could do me a favor. She couldn’t understand at first, so "R" help her in Japanese. Then I wrote in my mobile: “Can you help me with "R"? Don’t tell her”. I could see "R" looking back trying figure out what was happening. "A" asked what I like on "R", if was her face, or what. I gave a general answer about what I think about Japanese women, and made some compliments about "R"’s behavior, not her appearance.
From there we went to the bus stop. The bus was there. So, "R" ran to take the bus. I talked with "A" for a few minutes. She left. And then I talked with the two Colombian guys for a few minutes more.
So, she knows the two girls from the same English school. And "G" is very shy guy. Will take ages to him seeing that she is sending IOIs to him...
So how can I gaming a girl that is showing interested in another guy?
And what change in the game when she is shy?
Should I invite her to go out again?
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