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| Author: | dasmooth [ Wed Feb 18, 2015 9:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | About Damage Control (question only for serious guys) |
Read n took notes entirely on the topic of Qualification. One of the terms in the presentation was damage control. It was explained tht damage control is when you disqualify in order to get her to either start qualifying herself or chasing validation. If she does not chase/qualify herself after you've disqualified her you are in wht is called damage control. This stood out to me because in the past this became a problem n still kinda is. So for a serious person who KNOWS A LOT on pickup n seduction, is there a way you can get out of it besides still trying to move the interaction forward by qualifying? |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Feb 18, 2015 9:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: About Damage Control (question only for serious guys) |
I've never been one to follow those kinds of instructions. I found myself working harder than I had to. When you're of high quality the people in the room and the women you're talking to while know it as well. You will walk high quality, talk like high quality, and the look on your face will represent high quality. Your aura will be that as well. I've always felt like advice like the one in your post was written for low quality guys to cheat their way into some quick panties. The thing is; it always leaves them empty and without a girl after a short time. You want to actually be sought out. You want to actually project a frame that qualifies without you having to say much. And you want to make sure you are actually worth having that which you are qualifying for. Because if you are and you radiant that; this whole concept of damage control doesn't happen. My presence is qualifying. I'm a man. And she is a woman. The whole concept of getting women isn't as sciencey as it is made to seem by many of these books. You just have to understand the truths about women phycology and you will be attracting the women you want with a lot less effort. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Thu Feb 19, 2015 5:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: About Damage Control (question only for serious guys) |
Quote: I've never been one to follow those kinds of instructions. I found myself working harder than I had to.
When you're of high quality the people in the room and the women you're talking to while know it as well. You will walk high quality, talk like high quality, and the look on your face will represent high quality. Your aura will be that as well. I've always felt like advice like the one in your post was written for low quality guys to cheat their way into some quick panties. The thing is; it always leaves them empty and without a girl after a short time. You want to actually be sought out. You want to actually project a frame that qualifies without you having to say much. And you want to make sure you are actually worth having that which you are qualifying for. Because if you are and you radiant that; this whole concept of damage control doesn't happen. My presence is qualifying. I'm a man. And she is a woman. The whole concept of getting women isn't as sciencey as it is made to seem by many of these books. You just have to understand the truths about women phycology and you will be attracting the women you want with a lot less effort. What if you fuck up? For example, I was thinking this route of damage control when I met up with a woman after I had a few drinks with my buddy. Let say after I had a few drinks with my buddy, I called her and asked to meet up at another bar that same night...I was drunk...and I made a fool out of myself LOL. Before that, attraction was high because she was sending me selfies and double texts....and I just made a mistake that night of drinking too much with my friend. Ever since then, I have been trying to meet up with her again to redo it all over again but she hasn't been biting ever since that bad first date. Even a simple selfie is met with resistance...because in the past she had no problem. What do you do then? |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Thu Feb 19, 2015 6:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: About Damage Control (question only for serious guys) |
Quote: Quote: I've never been one to follow those kinds of instructions. I found myself working harder than I had to.
When you're of high quality the people in the room and the women you're talking to while know it as well. You will walk high quality, talk like high quality, and the look on your face will represent high quality. Your aura will be that as well. I've always felt like advice like the one in your post was written for low quality guys to cheat their way into some quick panties. The thing is; it always leaves them empty and without a girl after a short time. You want to actually be sought out. You want to actually project a frame that qualifies without you having to say much. And you want to make sure you are actually worth having that which you are qualifying for. Because if you are and you radiant that; this whole concept of damage control doesn't happen. My presence is qualifying. I'm a man. And she is a woman. The whole concept of getting women isn't as sciencey as it is made to seem by many of these books. You just have to understand the truths about women phycology and you will be attracting the women you want with a lot less effort. What if you fuck up? For example, I was thinking this route of damage control when I met up with a woman after I had a few drinks with my buddy. Let say after I had a few drinks with my buddy, I called her and asked to meet up at another bar that same night...I was drunk...and I made a fool out of myself LOL. Before that, attraction was high because she was sending me selfies and double texts....and I just made a mistake that night of drinking too much with my friend. Ever since then, I have been trying to meet up with her again to redo it all over again but she hasn't been biting ever since that bad first date. Even a simple selfie is met with resistance...because in the past she had no problem. What do you do then? She only reflecting what your state is back to you. If you can return to the state of before she will return to the position she was in before as well. And thats all apart of strongly establishing yourself as that which you want to be, and not so much just having moments as that guy. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Fri Feb 20, 2015 5:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: About Damage Control (question only for serious guys) |
Quote: Quote: Quote: I've never been one to follow those kinds of instructions. I found myself working harder than I had to.
When you're of high quality the people in the room and the women you're talking to while know it as well. You will walk high quality, talk like high quality, and the look on your face will represent high quality. Your aura will be that as well. I've always felt like advice like the one in your post was written for low quality guys to cheat their way into some quick panties. The thing is; it always leaves them empty and without a girl after a short time. You want to actually be sought out. You want to actually project a frame that qualifies without you having to say much. And you want to make sure you are actually worth having that which you are qualifying for. Because if you are and you radiant that; this whole concept of damage control doesn't happen. My presence is qualifying. I'm a man. And she is a woman. The whole concept of getting women isn't as sciencey as it is made to seem by many of these books. You just have to understand the truths about women phycology and you will be attracting the women you want with a lot less effort. What if you fuck up? For example, I was thinking this route of damage control when I met up with a woman after I had a few drinks with my buddy. Let say after I had a few drinks with my buddy, I called her and asked to meet up at another bar that same night...I was drunk...and I made a fool out of myself LOL. Before that, attraction was high because she was sending me selfies and double texts....and I just made a mistake that night of drinking too much with my friend. Ever since then, I have been trying to meet up with her again to redo it all over again but she hasn't been biting ever since that bad first date. Even a simple selfie is met with resistance...because in the past she had no problem. What do you do then? She only reflecting what your state is back to you. If you can return to the state of before she will return to the position she was in before as well. And thats all apart of strongly establishing yourself as that which you want to be, and not so much just having moments as that guy. |
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