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Author:  TheLazyGent [ Wed Feb 18, 2015 4:57 am ]
Post subject:  PUA Opinion on Marriage
What are your opinions on marriage? Pick Up seems to promote the idea that women subconsciously want to be with men that get with other girls. They are just into sex, status, power, and security and when the man cant provide these things any more, she bails.

Tyler Durden put it best when he says "Ever realize that everything a girl finds attracted in a man can be explained by the man fucking a shit load of other girls" . I want a guy thats not needy/clingy (Hes not needy bc he diversifies his interests by bangs other chicks on the side). I want a guy that can make me cum (He's good in bed bc he has a lot of experience with other chicks). If a girl finds out you have a GF she will become instantly attractive to you and try to hook up with you bc they want what they cant have.

Are we designed to not be married?

Do you believe in true love?
Author:  southern_gentlemangq [ Wed Feb 18, 2015 6:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: PUA Opinion on Marriage
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Author:  spacejazz [ Wed Feb 18, 2015 6:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: PUA Opinion on Marriage
Humans aren't monogamous by nature it is cultural conditioning which usually fails.
True love is a naive notion, you can have "true love" get married and divorce a week later.
You can feel whatever you want, it's true you feel it, but it is meaningless, ie subjective.
Marriage was created to assign financial responsibility for children (and women) to men (paternal or not).
Having more options by developing PUA skills mean you can choose a better partner thus increasing the likelihood of a long term, quality relationship.
This would be the best position to start a family or committed relationship from.
It's a free universe, you can design a great marriage it doesn't even have to be "legal"
Author:  hugge [ Wed Feb 18, 2015 1:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PUA Opinion on Marriage
Nature has made us to be in love for somewhere between 6 months and 2 years. Any relation lasting longer than that is a conscious decision - you choose to stay.

There is one thing you can't deny in a monogamous relationship... No matter how you try to deal with your desire to fuck others, there will always be hurt feelings and jealousy (if you actually love each other). That's why it takes a completely different set of skills to keep a relationship alive and interesting. Or actually it doesn't... Let me explain.

What you need to do to maintain a relationship is to stay fit, stay attractive, keep working towards your goals etc (be on your path). You also need to stimulate your gf emotionally, just like you do to in pickup to get laid. Both of you need to make an effort to make each other feel good together. It takes work, nothing comes for free, and it never ends. You cannot lean back and relax. If you do this right you will not only stay attractive to your girl, but to others too, and you will always have options and temptations.

So about marriage... Only marry a girl if you know for sure that she is right for you. You will only know that if you have lots of experience with other girls. It so happens I married my girl a few days ago, at Valentines day. ;)
Author:  neo87 [ Wed Feb 18, 2015 2:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PUA Opinion on Marriage
Quote:
Nature has made us to be in love for somewhere between 6 months and 2 years. Any relation lasting longer than that is a conscious decision - you choose to stay.

There is one thing you can't deny in a monogamous relationship... No matter how you try to deal with your desire to fuck others, there will always be hurt feelings and jealousy (if you actually love each other). That's why it takes a completely different set of skills to keep a relationship alive and interesting. Or actually it doesn't... Let me explain.

What you need to do to maintain a relationship is to stay fit, stay attractive, keep working towards your goals etc (be on your path). You also need to stimulate your gf emotionally, just like you do to in pickup to get laid. Both of you need to make an effort to make each other feel good together. It takes work, nothing comes for free, and it never ends. You cannot lean back and relax. If you do this right you will not only stay attractive to your girl, but to others too, and you will always have options and temptations.

So about marriage... Only marry a girl if you know for sure that she is right for you. You will only know that if you have lots of experience with other girls. It so happens I married my girl a few days ago, at Valentines day. ;)

GAY..... Kidding. Good points and good for you hugge
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Feb 18, 2015 2:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: PUA Opinion on Marriage
I share many of the same sentiments as the men in this video here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04j1RqInHjE#t=182

^ Its a great conversation about why men aren't getting married in the 21st century.

You have to think about it...

What the hell is in it for us? What do we as men gain from entering marriage or a committed relationship at all? Women are already giving us everything without marriage. What to we gain new from marriage that we can't gain from a standard fwb relationship other than the lose of our ability to be with other women?
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